I have hand tamed an aviary bred bird, that was terrified of everything and everyone. Just looking at him was enough to terrify him. In four months this bird was stepping up and down from anywhere, would happily sit on my finger and take food from my hand. Although after the four months the bird wasn't terrified of everything and everyone he was still skittish, something like a curtain moving in a breeze would make him fly off. Due to a curtain separating the kitchen and dining, lounge rooms not being closed properly and the bird being spooked. He flew from the lounge room into the kitchen and into the kitchen window and the impact broke his neck.
Angel was a 5 yr old female Eclectus parrot that was rehome to us. She was a vicious demon-bird which hated EVERYTHING and EVERYONE. We were told that she was a screamer and biter. Angel spent around 3 yrs on a patio with very limited human interaction. So she started to scream until a neighbour complain to the council. What we weren't told, was that she didn't just scream at the top of her voice, she also swore at the top of her voice. Never understood why some people think it's funny to teach a parrot to swear. We also suspected that she was fed a bad diet.
My son Steven picked her up and she screamed most of the way home. She was placed in a cage and put in a corner of the lounge room which gave her a good view of the lounge, dining room and part of the kitchen. Also we placed a sheet to cover the top, back and sides of the cage. We felt that this gave Angel a sense of security. she screamed continuously for half of the first day. After that first day when inside the house she only screamed in the mornings and evenings. But we would put our birds outside to get a dose of sunlight. Angel would swear when she got a scare and each time it would last for 15 to 20 minutes. However I couldn't stop her swearing at the top of her voice and there was young children within earshot of Angels swearing. We decided to find a home for her on a large property. She went to a breeder who had a 25 acre property. This was done in the best interest of Angel and our neighbours. I personally would have love to have kept her. but it wasn't about me.
Angel would take a food item held with fingers. if she was in the cage she take the food very gently. But on the bird stand she was a lot more aggressive when taking the food. If you got too close she would bite, and she was real quick. When she bit, she would violently twist her head side to side. On more than occasion she remove skin and flesh from fingers and hands. But with the use of clicker and target training I stopped her biting and had her stepping up and down within 3 months and by 6 months she was able to be handled by selected people ( Angel's choice) without being bitten.
I'm going to be brutally honest now.
Mizzely
You have had Bobber for 2 and half years and the situation is becoming worse. He screams continually, bites and is now attacking your husband. It's blatantly obvious that Bobber is not at all HAPPY in this ENVIRONMENT and your TRAINING, or LACK of IT isn't ADDRESSING the SITUATION. What kind of life do you want for Bobber? People think that it takes great strength to hold on, But I think it take more strength to realise that it's time to let go. You need to do what's best for Bobber, your Husband and yourself. I believe that Bobber is an aviary bred bird and someone has tried to tame him and when they messed him up, they rehomed him.
Of course you could look at some of Barbara Heidenreich or Bird tricks videos instead.
I have read your posts and
do you really believe deep down that Bobber is a fit into your home environment?
Is it beneficial to Bobber screaming?
Is it beneficial to Bobber being caged?
How much longer is your husband going to tolerate being bitten?