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With all this...a question...How are you and Hoshi doing?
We are.. okay. He is still very fearful, I haven't been able to have any physical contact with him. He won't come to food, so that has been tough. I've seen on several sites that using food as a reward helps parrots to trust you. If Hoshi sees that I touched a piece of food and I put it in his food dish, he won't eat it. I'm thinking about possibly trying clicker training, but I'm not sure if that will do anything at this point.With all this...a question...How are you and Hoshi doing?
Yes I have seen both Dr. O and Dr. Mutchler. Besides talking about the signs of abuse on him, she said that over time he might warm up some, but he is most likely never going to be the cuddly bird that I had hoped for. She suggested that I try getting him out every day using a towel just to try to get him used to being held. She knows that toweling is never recommended but with Hoshi's situation that's the only thing else that I can try. She is also trying to get me in contact with Ann Brooks, which I have heard nothing from. She was leaving for South America at the end of August and I have no idea when she is coming back, so as far as getting help from her, it's a standstill.Is your vet Dr. Orosz? Was it her input?
You might want to talk to Lara Joseph, who is also in the Toledo area and is a professional bird/animal behaviorist:
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In the meantime I second playing some hands off games with your bird. Peek a boo, singing and dancing, watching TV even and reading to him/her.
How frustrating on top of everything else. I know you can only do what you can do and other people are out of your control, but dang it I wish things were going at least a little easier for you.She suggested that I try getting him out every day using a towel just to try to get him used to being held. She knows that toweling is never recommended but with Hoshi's situation that's the only thing else that I can try. She is also trying to get me in contact with Ann Brooks, which I have heard nothing from. She was leaving for South America at the end of August and I have no idea when she is coming back, so as far as getting help from her, it's a standstill.
That is a very generous offer! I do hope your truck doesn't give you too many or any major grief until you're ready to trade up.I should also ask if you are in the Detroit area or Toledo? I live in southern Wood county so if you are in Toledo I'm not too far away if I could help in any way. My truck is getting pretty old now so traveling to Detroit isn't necessarily a great idea. It's been breaking down at least a couple times a year and in big ways.
How frustrating on top of everything else. I know you can only do what you can do and other people are out of your control, but dang it I wish things were going at least a little easier for you.
That is a very generous offer! I do hope your truck doesn't give you too many or any major grief until you're ready to trade up.
That would work out well, too. I didn't think of that. You could always rehome him to Bob if you think that might be a better fit (as he has a soft spot for aloof birds ) and you could adopt a known cuddler instead. I know we all push to not rehome birds, but it's more because people get bored or don't want to put in the effort. You're doing the hard work and you're not bored, you just want him to be happy. Sometimes it's simply he best option all around. As long as you do your due diligence and make sure the new home is a good one and a good fit, everyone wins. Bob & his wife Kathy would be an outstanding choice if you do decide to go that route.If, at any time, you decide that it would be best to rehome Hoshi, please contact me. We do have experience with IRNs- 26 years worth- so we know the species well.
That being said...keep trying to work with him...you never know when a breakthrough could come...