So sorry everyone. Guy spent the weekend at the breeders house. They love love love each other so much. It really is amazing to watch him interact with the breeder. I thought he would hate every man that he laid his eyes on. Bongo came home saturday and we gave her the day to chill and get to know the house, then introduced her to the dogs and to Clifford and then Guy came back. We are deciding if we want to adopt a 10 year old jardines parrot whos mate just died so the breeder will have room for Guy. He wants Guy to live in his home and be his personal bird. They are amazing together, but he has no room for him now.
If we decide to take "Jardy" home
then guy will have his forever home and forever daddy and that gives me so much joy that If I decide not to keep "Jardy" then would at least foster him for a bit so that Guy could be happy.
Eventfull weekend, sigh....I think things are coming together nicely though. Thank you all for your thoughts and concerns, you are all such wonderful people and the support has given me a lot of hope