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- Hannah Mosqueda
So, Quijote is one of the great loves of my life, and he bites. When things are going excellently well between us he bites much less painfully, and a simple 'ah' will get him to stop. Recently, though, he has been biting really hard. Now, he seems to be trying to give me a clear message without really wounding me, because I know from experience that if he wanted to make me bleed he certainly could.
Now, we already have a sort of plan. We have started taking him out (even though he bites) and letting him on our shoulder (where he doesn't bite unless you turn you face to him). Then we either just stand together talking and singing softly, or we lie down and just relax with him.
This looks like it has an effect, and he will get much calmer and more comfortable with us, but then when we go to get him out of the cage the next time its like we are back to square one.
We have only been trying this "soothing flock time" for a couple of days, so I'm not expecting huge returns right away. I am just wondering if anyone knows why this behavior has started recently, and what else I can do to help it.
Quijote shares a cage with Pearl, our budgie. He isn't aggressive to her, and is very protective of her. She isn't hand tamed, and we make her nervous, so I wonder if that could be part of the problem.
He is especially aggressive about guarding his food dish. Which is new. He even bites me when I go to put food into the dish...which seems counterproductive to say the least.
Also, he still calls to us. He will say "come here!" and "peekaboo!" and make the kissing noise at us. In fact, he sort of screams the kissing noise at me. He has even made kissing noises, and then bit me right after, and then made the noise...which makes me wonder what the heck he means by it.
He has also started absolutely refusing to step up, which he had gotten really good at. And he actually shies away from my hands, and draws away from me when I come near him.
I don't understand why we seem to have taken so many steps back in our relationship in such a short period of time, but my husband and I are determined to mend it. Quijote is such a sensitive little guy, and he deserves to feel safe and loved in his own home.
Now, we already have a sort of plan. We have started taking him out (even though he bites) and letting him on our shoulder (where he doesn't bite unless you turn you face to him). Then we either just stand together talking and singing softly, or we lie down and just relax with him.
This looks like it has an effect, and he will get much calmer and more comfortable with us, but then when we go to get him out of the cage the next time its like we are back to square one.
We have only been trying this "soothing flock time" for a couple of days, so I'm not expecting huge returns right away. I am just wondering if anyone knows why this behavior has started recently, and what else I can do to help it.
Quijote shares a cage with Pearl, our budgie. He isn't aggressive to her, and is very protective of her. She isn't hand tamed, and we make her nervous, so I wonder if that could be part of the problem.
He is especially aggressive about guarding his food dish. Which is new. He even bites me when I go to put food into the dish...which seems counterproductive to say the least.
Also, he still calls to us. He will say "come here!" and "peekaboo!" and make the kissing noise at us. In fact, he sort of screams the kissing noise at me. He has even made kissing noises, and then bit me right after, and then made the noise...which makes me wonder what the heck he means by it.
He has also started absolutely refusing to step up, which he had gotten really good at. And he actually shies away from my hands, and draws away from me when I come near him.
I don't understand why we seem to have taken so many steps back in our relationship in such a short period of time, but my husband and I are determined to mend it. Quijote is such a sensitive little guy, and he deserves to feel safe and loved in his own home.