My entire experience of having a bird has had more downs than ups. From him coming from an abusive breeder, being deathly afraid of me, and barbering his feathers off to well.. he's cute. Please don't misunderstand, I love him to death. I got him at 3 months and he will be one year old next week! I'm getting a second job just to cover his vet bills. No matter how far back he sets me financially and won't bond with me, I'm still going to be there for him.
The little guy is still afraid of me. I've tried literally every tip from every website online on how to bond with your parrot, but to no avail. My vets keep pointing me towards Barbara Heidenreich, which I have checked out her website , but I don't have a ton of money laying around to buy her videos, nor am I interested in her forum pages-- which brings me back here to Avian Avenue. I've posted several threads about my journey with Hoshi (my indian ringneck), so if you'd like more background information, check them out.
Progress has been very slow, but it's there. He sometimes takes food from my hand, so far Nutriberries are the only food that's temping enough for him to go near my hand. I've tried offering fruits and seeds from my hand but he won't go near it. He's in the living room, with his cage door open to give him the option to come out (he always does). I've been holding him every day, trying to get him more used to me, but so far it hasn't made a difference as far as trust goes. Recently I've put some towels over the back of the couch and set him on top so he's closer to me whenever I've had work to do on the computer or are just watching TV. Haven't seen much of a difference there either, he's always on the opposite side of where I'm sitting. I've tried sharing food with him too, which I've had some luck with. I'll get a banana and tear a small piece off the top and set it on top of the towel. He occasionally has taken a nibble, but never actually picks it up and eats it.
In a previous post I talked about his falling issues. I took him to the vet and they decided to imp him. He was doing great until the anesthetic wore off. The first day he had his new feathers he ripped all of the tail feathers out and several wing feathers. A couple days after that I was able to get a hold of the vet and they said they are going to be looking for new feathers. The ones that used last time were from cockatiels, a green cheek conures, and sun conures. Yes-- he was very colorful.
I apologies for all of the rambling on. I was just trying my best to give a good idea with what I've tried so far, as far as bonding techniques. If anyone here has had a scared bird and has some tips please let me know!
The little guy is still afraid of me. I've tried literally every tip from every website online on how to bond with your parrot, but to no avail. My vets keep pointing me towards Barbara Heidenreich, which I have checked out her website , but I don't have a ton of money laying around to buy her videos, nor am I interested in her forum pages-- which brings me back here to Avian Avenue. I've posted several threads about my journey with Hoshi (my indian ringneck), so if you'd like more background information, check them out.
Progress has been very slow, but it's there. He sometimes takes food from my hand, so far Nutriberries are the only food that's temping enough for him to go near my hand. I've tried offering fruits and seeds from my hand but he won't go near it. He's in the living room, with his cage door open to give him the option to come out (he always does). I've been holding him every day, trying to get him more used to me, but so far it hasn't made a difference as far as trust goes. Recently I've put some towels over the back of the couch and set him on top so he's closer to me whenever I've had work to do on the computer or are just watching TV. Haven't seen much of a difference there either, he's always on the opposite side of where I'm sitting. I've tried sharing food with him too, which I've had some luck with. I'll get a banana and tear a small piece off the top and set it on top of the towel. He occasionally has taken a nibble, but never actually picks it up and eats it.
In a previous post I talked about his falling issues. I took him to the vet and they decided to imp him. He was doing great until the anesthetic wore off. The first day he had his new feathers he ripped all of the tail feathers out and several wing feathers. A couple days after that I was able to get a hold of the vet and they said they are going to be looking for new feathers. The ones that used last time were from cockatiels, a green cheek conures, and sun conures. Yes-- he was very colorful.
I apologies for all of the rambling on. I was just trying my best to give a good idea with what I've tried so far, as far as bonding techniques. If anyone here has had a scared bird and has some tips please let me know!