I am having the hardest time deciding on my next bird. We have a sun conure, two caiques, and a non typical IRN. I have spent weeks trying to find the right one. So much so that the info is starting to run together. So I thought I would ask on here. I am looking for a bird that is social. I like to interact with my birds and have them be out in the room with us. So one that can be in a room (supervised of course) with other birds without flying to attack them is preferred. Each is given their own space. A one person bird is fine but I need one that will at least tolerate my husband even if grudgingly. My sun conure is like that but my irn hates him. Lunges at the cage if he just walks by. A vocabulary would be great even if it is just fifteen words. Lastly one that is at least somewhat forgiving. This is my first bird bigger than a caique and I would hate to ruin it because I did not have the experience. I read tons of things and talk to bird people when I can but that does not prepare you for every situation. I am looking at a hans or ycm although something a little bigger would be fine too so I am open to suggestions. Oh! As far as noise level I handle all of them except the irn, her piercing call can get on my nerves. Lucky for me she does not do it often. Any help or advice would be very much appreciated.