Just wondering how he's settling in. Hope for more pics soon
Ouch, sorry I got that mixed up. I think it is going to take a long time. That was always my assumption. But when I see him so calm and accepting of others (usually men) I ask myself why doesn't he like me? He knows me better than them?Did you see my post on Garance's thread? He's a grey, not a 'too. I think it takes so much more time and patience to earn a grey's trust, let alone affection. I know it is hard to not take personally since I watch it daily between the Mr. and Edie. Edie is slowly coming around for him with patience (and walnuts!), and she's been with us now for almost 2 months. I think if he would stop trying to force scritches on her she might actually gain trust quicker, but he keeps insisting on trying instead of listening to me when I tell him to just be content to hold her for now. It might take a long time, and I have no idea what that's like so I can only imagine how emotionally difficult it must be. We're here to support you, sweet lady!! Again, hang in there
Thanks, Kacie, I'm sorry for your loss as well. On your birthday. Hopefully your memories will become sweet over the coming years. I would rather he just be taken than to have him suffer. He was terrified, saying he was in a war internment camp and "they" were after him. So sad. My father had a fine, fine, mind. I will miss it.Katy, I am incredibly sorry to hear about your dad... My dad passed last year on my birthday and Losing him was horrendous. I cant imagine how it must feel to seem as if you have lost someone who is really still here. Please stay positive. I wish your family the best.
I didn't mean to offend comparing him to a 'too Francis was very accepting of both Addam and myself right off as well like Garance's BE2, and our grey has been so incredibly different with everything. She's more of a biter, but also a baby who is being trained. She's just more cautious in general. I sincerely hope for the best for you two.Ouch, sorry I got that mixed up. I think it is going to take a long time. That was always my assumption. But when I see him so calm and accepting of others (usually men) I ask myself why doesn't he like me? He knows me better than them?
Oh Katy! That is just awful... I am so sad for your family. I truly wish your father some peace. As Saemma said, OPTIMISM. Maybe they will get his meds sorted out enough to where he is comfortable.Thanks, Kacie, I'm sorry for your loss as well. On your birthday. Hopefully your memories will become sweet over the coming years. I would rather he just be taken than to have him suffer. He was terrified, saying he was in a war internment camp and "they" were after him. So sad. My father had a fine, fine, mind. I will miss it.