BigSkyMT
Walking the driveway
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I need all you parrot experts to help me. I just found this site & signed up hoping for help and to learn. I have been researching parrots for many many months, when I say research I mean reading hours a day, I've watched almost every single youtube video about training & taming. My husband & I finally decided we are ready to add a bird to our family. We do not have any children yet, waiting atleast another 3-5 years for children. But, we are definitely ready for a bird! We just spent almost $1,000 on a nice prevue cage, toys, treats, ect. I looked around for parrots that are in need of a home on craigslist and newspapers, but they are very limited and far away. (300+ miles) I found a cockatiel breeder 2 hours away. I connected with her & made the drive a week ago to take a look. The babies were 5 weeks old. I really liked the little yellow one, he was calm and quieter than the others and believed to be the only male. He wasn't standing on his feet like his siblings, that kind of worried me, but the breeder said some just mature later than others & he is fine, he is also smaller than the rest. So anyways I put a deposit on him. I made the 2 hour drive again today. She brought him out & I got him to step up on my finger! You can only imagine my excitement! Then he flew away & I went to grab him from the floor. I picked him up but he tried to bite me. I put him back on his perch in his box she brought him out on. He then flew away again, this time into their livingroom window. The woman had to grab him from behind the couch, she said she needed to clip his wings a little more. She grabbed him & tried cutting his wings, he freaked out, I asked of she wanted help & when I went to grab him he latched onto my thumb! It hurt a bit & she said when they latch the don't let go. I knew not to jere away & hurt his fragile neck, so I just held my hand really still & he let go. I know he was very terrified & if I was him I would've bitten someone too. I asked the lady if he will be more tame able into his adult life, she said she's never had a bird as shy as him. She said when she goes to feed the babies all his siblings come running to be let out of thier cage, but not him. He would rather stay far away from a person than to come eat. She has to grab him to feed him. But then she tells me he will be tame able that I have good patience.. is she telling the truth or does she just want my money & to get rid of the feisty bird? I kmow this is long, but this site is my only hope, please bare with me.. so after I left with a bleeding thumb & feeling really bummed out without a REAL answer (I want a bird companion that I can tame, train & have a very close relationship with) I left her home & went to Petsmart to buy some more bird toys & look around. I came across a sun conure, he/she would follow me from one side of the glass to the other, she/he bowed her head against the glass, almost like asking for a head scratch. I'm not going to lie, I stood there & interacted with that bird for well over an hour. I just couldn't leave. So now, I am thinking of telling the breeder to keep her deposit for her time & going to get the sun conure? BUT I do not know.. I had my heart set on this little yellow cockatiel that hates all and any interactions with people. But I really want a bird that's going to cuddle & be my bud for many years to come. I'd hate to get a bird that I cannot tame, that doesn't like people or going places. I would love to halter train my bird and take him out in the yard and walks through the park, ect. I guess after I gave the whole detail story so I can get REAL answers from people with hands on experience with shy Cockatiels & sun conure. Can a 6 week old cockatiel, that is unlike any bird the breeder has ever seen & just doesn't want to be messed with in any way, can he become a loving, tame, trainable, cuddly, outgoing bird? Or should I go with the sun conure that seemed to really be affectionate & cuddly? Can a 6 week old frank cockatiel be completely tamed? Lol. Please help me, I appreciate any help you can give me & thank you for taking the time to read my LONG story and hopefully replying. Pics of 5 week old cockatiel laying down, not standing like his siblings from the same clutch then him at 6 week old perching right before he flew away from me lol and sun conure at Petsmart that seemed to like me a lot.
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