I am stunned by all the response and support. Everyone is so nice.
Kelly says Good Girl and makes peacock sounds.
Won't play with with large toys but snagged a small one I had taken away.
I will make her some small ones with sturdy pieces tonight.
She hasn't been loud, and moves very very slowly.
I got her to take 3 almonds from my hand.
My husband seems to scare her. That is very odd as most animals and children trust him on sight.
She tries to run if you try and hand her anything from above chest level.
Anything coming down towards her head freaks her out. If you lift it up towards her from the floor she will take it. You can't move hands around above her head at all without her panic responce. I wonder if an animal used to jump on her cage or something fell on it at one time or something.
She doesn't seem scared of the cat. Our cat doesn't want anything to do with her though
These are really great observations, good for you. By observing her and figuring how what she is and is not comfortable with you can avoid doing things that upset her and slowly build some trust. So excellent. Maybe if Kelly says good girl she's a girl