ooooohhhh....This
subject, IMO, needs to be discussed
...Yay!
Ok, this got a bit long, but I hope it can help.
The Story of How Ki got his Wings :
Ki was clipped as a baby when I first got him...(and I knew nothing)
I thought he was safe that way, that's what they had told me.
.......
For 1/2 of Ki's first year : He would go outside with me, on my shoulder every day to get the mail- down the drive & back, then sit in the Valencia tree, and then back inside. He was pretty timid, afraid to jump or step too far.
One day- a crow overhead spooked him,
and he took off!!!! Flying! about 10' off the ground- he was a block away in the blink of an eye!!
(
insert a horrible 3 hours here ) ...
A neighbor helped me search...he was silent- and the noise of other birds and cars etc seemed deafening as I anxiously tried to call to him and listen for him. We finally spotted him...he had flown a good two blocks away, under some sheltering trees next to a house, and had landed on a phone wire going into the house...about 6' off the ground. He sat there, silent and still, as I went up to him and
he stepped right onto my shoulder. Tears were falling, I was so relieved and thankful he was ok. I was shocked that happened and it made me wake up.
I quickly did a lot of research, and found out how terribly ignorant I was...
but I corrected my thinking, and behavior, that was the last time we went outside like that- when he was 6 mo. old.
Now when we go outside, he is in a carrier or the Port-a-Pet. He hates harnesses.
I could have lost my heart that day, I was so sadly uninformed, that it could have cost my baby his life!
That's probably why I am so outspoken about this issue when it comes up. Ki is now 8 years old...he has been flighted ever since...and
YES,
he did
not know how, and was clumsy,
and bumped into walls..
and fell down
and couldn't steer himself,
and it was scary.
But- you know what? HE LEARNED!!!
All of that, he learned. It took weeks for him, (once they had grown in) to be able to fly with his new wings...even just straight and then land on something .
But, let me tell you...
on the sweet day that he flew
(yet again) towards the wall, and
then turned and
came back and landed on me
...I was so joyful and proud of him!
That opened up a whole new world for him,
and he practiced and practiced every day. Soon, he was making circles, and learning how to pull up and land on every kind of surface. I noticed that his demeanor was changing...still sweet as pie...but more confident, and
happier. So much happier,
that his playfulness constantly made me laugh, he was becoming fearless, and every day he learned new things, and pushed his own limits (like hanging upside down and dropping onto a surface). Oh yeah-
and he's gotten much
stronger physically!
I'm very impressed with how much he has learned about flight, and maneuvers. Because, he can turn in mid-air, in the space of about 12", he can fly straight up from the ground, he can also fly away from bedtime...
(lol) but I wouldn't have it any other way.
Because I have a bird in my life.
Of course if your baby has never flown, he will bump into things. This is the hardest part ...
you need to let them. I mean, plan to make your home as safe as you can, and allow him to learn in a room where you can have landing places for him, and perhaps even some padding if you are worried. But that IS how they learn...
they have to figure it out, little by little.
It is SO WORTH IT!! to allow this to happen. To work a bit extra to make your home safe for flight- it is doable in any home. As they improve, and you introduce them to different places, you can train them where and how to fly better. Takes patience, and the will to let your kid skin his knee a few times.
They can learn. So can you! There is much support and info out there to be able to do it safely...and much myth about how clipped wings keep them safer....it doesn't. It seems that way...in the short term. But- if you will become determined-
to get through the awkward stages....and be there every step of the way- your bird
will learn, and give them some credit to do so...soon they will self-navigate, and control it.
I know that there are some very very rare cases in which it is critical for the birds safety, recovery from injury etc...to clip.
However- This is my heart-felt plea: Please consider.... with Empathy...letting your babies have their wings.
-Celia