RainFields
Walking the driveway
Ever since Boomer claimed our home to be his, this training and trust thing has been pretty much all I think about. I come here and see all your pretty little fids, I see them foraging, playing, eating, being held by you all. I look at Boomer and say, maybe someday huh? And I really feel bad for Boomer because the people that he now has know nothing about tiels! And even more crazy...his people would do anything or whatever it takes to make sure he is just happy and loved, but they don't know how or they never think it's enough.
Food: I try and I try but so far all I can get him to eat beside his seed mix, is wheat toast and brown rice. But he will only eat these things if I feed him from my fingers, no crocks or feeding bowls. I've even tried to put rice in one of his regular feeders, he won't touch it. Everyday I offer something new, at first he wants it because I will eat it too, or the dogs will eat it but one little taste and he runs to the other side. He does eat millet spray now.
He never gets out of his cage, this makes me feel really bad, even if I left the door open, I don't think he would come out. He stays away from my hands, the only time my hands are allowed to come close is when I'm feeding him his toast or rice.
Then I found this on another web site:
To win the bird's trust will probably be the biggest challenge for you both. We'd start by catching him in a towel. The towel will aid you in controlling him as well as protecting you from his biting. Gently wrap the towel around the bird being careful that the wings are tucked in the proper position and the head free enough to insure there is no obstacle to block it's breathing. With the bird safely wrapped in the towel, sit down with the bird in your lap and begin building that trust by speaking softly and assuredly. You'll need to begin slowly so don't be too eager to rub his head. You will have to repeat this routine several times but eventually he should learn you mean him no harm. We'd recommend you do this every day until you see the results you are looking for. Just remember, he looks at people as his enemy so be patient because it could take a little time.
I don't think I can do this, it seems very scary for Boomer and for me. Is this something any of you would do? I'd be so afraid I'd hurt him or cause him to be even more afraid of me. Little steps I've made so far is, I can put my face inside his cage and talk to him, he seems very okay with this, he will even come close and talk with me. But the second even one hand goes in that cage, it's "OH NO!", he gets as far away as he can and the conversation is over.
I just don't know what else I can do to win his trust? I just wish there was a step by step guide to let me know how far I've come or when to advance to the next step. Sometimes I just tell myself this is all there ever will be, he will never allow himself to be touched and he will never want more than what he has now, he's just happy with what he has now...so just let it go.
So...is there a secret 12 step program you could put me and Boomer thru?
Food: I try and I try but so far all I can get him to eat beside his seed mix, is wheat toast and brown rice. But he will only eat these things if I feed him from my fingers, no crocks or feeding bowls. I've even tried to put rice in one of his regular feeders, he won't touch it. Everyday I offer something new, at first he wants it because I will eat it too, or the dogs will eat it but one little taste and he runs to the other side. He does eat millet spray now.
He never gets out of his cage, this makes me feel really bad, even if I left the door open, I don't think he would come out. He stays away from my hands, the only time my hands are allowed to come close is when I'm feeding him his toast or rice.
Then I found this on another web site:
To win the bird's trust will probably be the biggest challenge for you both. We'd start by catching him in a towel. The towel will aid you in controlling him as well as protecting you from his biting. Gently wrap the towel around the bird being careful that the wings are tucked in the proper position and the head free enough to insure there is no obstacle to block it's breathing. With the bird safely wrapped in the towel, sit down with the bird in your lap and begin building that trust by speaking softly and assuredly. You'll need to begin slowly so don't be too eager to rub his head. You will have to repeat this routine several times but eventually he should learn you mean him no harm. We'd recommend you do this every day until you see the results you are looking for. Just remember, he looks at people as his enemy so be patient because it could take a little time.
I don't think I can do this, it seems very scary for Boomer and for me. Is this something any of you would do? I'd be so afraid I'd hurt him or cause him to be even more afraid of me. Little steps I've made so far is, I can put my face inside his cage and talk to him, he seems very okay with this, he will even come close and talk with me. But the second even one hand goes in that cage, it's "OH NO!", he gets as far away as he can and the conversation is over.
I just don't know what else I can do to win his trust? I just wish there was a step by step guide to let me know how far I've come or when to advance to the next step. Sometimes I just tell myself this is all there ever will be, he will never allow himself to be touched and he will never want more than what he has now, he's just happy with what he has now...so just let it go.
So...is there a secret 12 step program you could put me and Boomer thru?