I would say that while difficulties are different between species, there is no such thing as an "easy" bird. Even after you do your research, you cannot be 100% prepared. My Quaker and I were love at first sight; we just had an instant connection (even though now he prefers my husband to me!). When I did my MONTHS of research, the bird I expected was:
- Nippy
- Cage Aggressive
- Hard to get onto pellets from seeds
- Quiet but Talkative
- Cuddly
The bird I now have:
- has never bitten
- is only SLIGHTLY cage aggressive
- LOUD but also talkative
- not cuddly, but likes scritches
- was moved from seeds to pellets in a few weeks
So really, the only thing that was right is that he tends to be a bit territorial.
The point is, spending time with a bird is the only way you will be able to see if he is right for you or not. You can read generalizations of birds from sunup to sundown and still not know a THING about the individual person you bring home. It's literally the same thing as saying "all women like to have babies, cook dinner, and cry at romance movies." To generalize so much means you will be in for a huge surprise when that woman hates cooking, loves action flicks, and is not interested in having children! The same goes for birds, they are all so intelligent and different from each other that even if they all looked identical to each other, you'd be able to know them apart pretty easily.
I think others have really nailed it with their recommendations of, instead of finding a "first bird", find a bird that you can connect with, and are comfortable with. When I got Jingo I was not comfortable with the big beaks of macaws, etc, but now that I understand more about birds, and have spent some time with big ol' softies, I can no longer write them off my list if something happens in the future.
Birds are a BIG commitment in terms of time, money, and time. Yes, I said that twice, because time isn't just time with the bird. Think of time cleaning, rearranging/making toys, preparing meals, more cleaning!, traveling to a certified vet, etc. And know that some birds will cost more than others. I am lucky that my bird loves chains - which are pretty much indestructible. But some birds on here go through ENTIRE 10 foot long 2x4 boards in a WEEK because they love chewing so much.
We don't want to scare you off! We just want you to understand all of the facets of owning a bird - we're here to help every step of the way!