Amy- I have you on FB, I'm the one with Doobie
well, both my males are rescues both previously owned by the same person, they're also polar opposites in regards to personality and behavior. With Doobie I couldn't ask for a better bird, he is truly a special boy to me and so intelligent. He never bites, no behavior issues and is a true love bug. Mickey on the other hand is a grouch and will bite you if he can.
I wouldn't worry too much about him being a male, he chose you so I would go for that one but If it scares you too much than I would pick a girl. I really don't think you'll have too many problems with him