If I could have some prayers and good wishes for my "friends" family to get them through this very tough time ...Chris wasnt a good fried of mine I havent even talked to him in about 5-7 yrs maybe longer ..but he was the best friend of one of my best friends so I ask for prayers and good wishes for all who are going to miss him ...Chris passed away at 49 from a massive heart attack right after beating cancer ....you just never know ...when its your time its your time ....
I hate to say it but this has caused a problem ....Chris was apart of my life when I was breeding reptiles and there is a get together for him ...my friend is putting it on after the summer reptile show on the 27th ...so a good part of my past will be showing up and Im freakin abit ....when I left because of the assult..I just left the hobby/industry/society after 25 yrs ..without talking to anyone really ...I put a blurb on my site ..had to sell the animals and that was it ...so Im sure there are going to be questions and my anxiety is already going through the roof ...and there is no getting out of this I have to go ....so what do I do ..just be honest and if asked explain possibly over and over again triggering myself with horrible memories of a time I have worked so hard to get through ...or just say as nice as possible it none of their business ....I just dont know what to do ....
I hate to say it but this has caused a problem ....Chris was apart of my life when I was breeding reptiles and there is a get together for him ...my friend is putting it on after the summer reptile show on the 27th ...so a good part of my past will be showing up and Im freakin abit ....when I left because of the assult..I just left the hobby/industry/society after 25 yrs ..without talking to anyone really ...I put a blurb on my site ..had to sell the animals and that was it ...so Im sure there are going to be questions and my anxiety is already going through the roof ...and there is no getting out of this I have to go ....so what do I do ..just be honest and if asked explain possibly over and over again triggering myself with horrible memories of a time I have worked so hard to get through ...or just say as nice as possible it none of their business ....I just dont know what to do ....