I also found, if you take out their grate and tray bottom, and climb inside the cage while your 'too was on the outside(on top of it) or away from the cage and be in there yourself and have your 'too come to YOU. It is another way for them to get over their fear, as they see you in it too. And often times will want to join you and be in it. And once your at that point, you can try and snuggle/cuddle her inside the cage on/in your lap