Beanurita
Rollerblading along the road
Yea @fluffypoptarts! So glad to hear that you are keeping Turnip!!!
Amen to this. I was sad when I had read your original post, and all I could think was how could she make you do that if she loved you for YOU? But again, it wasn't my right to say this, or butt into that aspect of things. < 3Ultimatums are definitely not the way to a healthy relationship.
I am glad that you are keeping Turnip. I was actually just thinking about the little guy and how I could possibly figure out how to help you. I had three birds before I met my current boyfriend. The one before him did not understand why I wanted birds. I acquired three during our time together. He did not care for the birds. He actually punted Sammy against the wall one day, thinking I was not watching. I nearly killed him, right there on the spot. We did not last long after that. I made sure that my current bf knew I had birds, which are like children to me. I also made sure he knew that 3 was just a temporary number, more birds would join my flock. He never had pets, but he can see how much I love my birds. After almost five years of dating, he went from not being near them, to talking with them, and now finally, he'll sit with Sam on him. I think he actually kind of likes it. Sam is finicky about who he trusts and likes. He also has plenty of reasons to hate men. But he likes my bf, and I think my bf knows it is an "honor" to gain Sams trust and approval.
I wish your personal situation could have worked out differently. Maybe something will change. If not, you know that you'll have a cute little Turnip, who will love you no matter what!
He's adorable. He likes to try to visit the others, though, which I always have to be watchful of! He'll get his little toes bitten.Turnip sounds like such a little cutie!!!!