Beanurita
Rollerblading along the road
Yea @fluffypoptarts! So glad to hear that you are keeping Turnip!!!
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Cyreen
Rollerblading along the road
Ultimatums are definitely not the way to a healthy relationship.
Amen to this. I was sad when I had read your original post, and all I could think was how could she make you do that if she loved you for YOU? But again, it wasn't my right to say this, or butt into that aspect of things. < 3
Your fids are very lucky to have you.
I wonder how many people go through this and are strong enough to do what is right for their lives. In the end it really does come down to doing the right thing... Idk how someone can expect you to commit to them while at the same time insist u dissolve a previous commitment. Oxymoron moron ... Kind of harsh the moron part ... Meant to be funny tho
Thanks, guys. She's really a great person, but ultimatums don't sit well with me either, especially when it comes to my little birdies. 
I guess it comes down to clashing needs/priorities. Argh, relationships.
I guess it comes down to clashing needs/priorities. Argh, relationships.
I am glad that you are keeping Turnip. I was actually just thinking about the little guy and how I could possibly figure out how to help you. I had three birds before I met my current boyfriend. The one before him did not understand why I wanted birds. I acquired three during our time together. He did not care for the birds. He actually punted Sammy against the wall one day, thinking I was not watching. I nearly killed him, right there on the spot. We did not last long after that. I made sure that my current bf knew I had birds, which are like children to me. I also made sure he knew that 3 was just a temporary number, more birds would join my flock. He never had pets, but he can see how much I love my birds. After almost five years of dating, he went from not being near them, to talking with them, and now finally, he'll sit with Sam on him. I think he actually kind of likes it. Sam is finicky about who he trusts and likes. He also has plenty of reasons to hate men. But he likes my bf, and I think my bf knows it is an "honor" to gain Sams trust and approval.
I wish your personal situation could have worked out differently. Maybe something will change. If not, you know that you'll have a cute little Turnip, who will love you no matter what!
I wish your personal situation could have worked out differently. Maybe something will change. If not, you know that you'll have a cute little Turnip, who will love you no matter what!
I am glad that you are keeping Turnip. I was actually just thinking about the little guy and how I could possibly figure out how to help you. I had three birds before I met my current boyfriend. The one before him did not understand why I wanted birds. I acquired three during our time together. He did not care for the birds. He actually punted Sammy against the wall one day, thinking I was not watching. I nearly killed him, right there on the spot. We did not last long after that. I made sure that my current bf knew I had birds, which are like children to me. I also made sure he knew that 3 was just a temporary number, more birds would join my flock. He never had pets, but he can see how much I love my birds. After almost five years of dating, he went from not being near them, to talking with them, and now finally, he'll sit with Sam on him. I think he actually kind of likes it. Sam is finicky about who he trusts and likes. He also has plenty of reasons to hate men. But he likes my bf, and I think my bf knows it is an "honor" to gain Sams trust and approval.
I wish your personal situation could have worked out differently. Maybe something will change. If not, you know that you'll have a cute little Turnip, who will love you no matter what!
ZF, thank you very much.
You're right, the love of a Turnip is indeed a great thing! Whenever I put my finger through the bars, he rubs his little head against it, but he like...makes circles so that his entire head gets rubbed/scratched. He's a funny little guy. Oh man, I would've probably hurt that bf if I'd been you! That's just awful.
Turnip sounds like such a little cutie!!!!
He's adorable. He likes to try to visit the others, though, which I always have to be watchful of! He'll get his little toes bitten.Turnip sounds like such a little cutie!!!!
