well, you gots to SING..I sings my lungs out and sometimes da humans cover dere ears cause I is loud, the louder the better. I calls for her in my best Indian Ring neck imitation and several other birdies. I calls over and over and shatter everyone's ear drums until dat girl has to answer. Plus I follows her everywhere..where she goes, I follow. No place is safe from me. except for da wall, I cant manage dat wall cause I gots bad feet but I flies everywhere else and follow her till she has to give in. and den she is pretty cooperative after dat. I can't tell you how to do da nasty cause everybirdie has a special way of doing dat.but you gots to do it a lot just cause. den I starts da whole routine all over again..but singing singing singing...dat's da key to da whole ting..that big girl of mine loves da singing.