So I finally got my dream of having a dog. We are fostering-to-adopt a 1 year old border collie/lab/pit mix and he's been here about a week. He's pretty nice and leaves the cages alone pretty well and is potty trained, super quiet and non-destructive. So i guess the only thing wrong is he has grabbed my hand or wrist 3 times now and applied pressure and I am starting to worry it might escalate to a bite.
The first time I sat down next to him as he was laying there was rubbing his belly and he randomly quickly turned around and grabbed my wrist/hand and applied enough pressure to leave marks for a few minutes after and only let go when I yelled no. The second time we had just finished playing and I was again petting him when he reached out and grabbed me, the third time we had just gotten done playing when I was sitting with him and had my hand on his back when he grabbed me. I think it's a warning to not touch him. He does not do this to my bf at all. the dog also tends to look at me from the sides of his eyes and is constantly staring at me without blinking. I am not real experienced and have no experience with aggression. Any advice on how to handle this when it happens and on what I should maybe do with him? I'm really torn as he's mellow and calm with the animals but gives me an odd feeling.
The first time I sat down next to him as he was laying there was rubbing his belly and he randomly quickly turned around and grabbed my wrist/hand and applied enough pressure to leave marks for a few minutes after and only let go when I yelled no. The second time we had just finished playing and I was again petting him when he reached out and grabbed me, the third time we had just gotten done playing when I was sitting with him and had my hand on his back when he grabbed me. I think it's a warning to not touch him. He does not do this to my bf at all. the dog also tends to look at me from the sides of his eyes and is constantly staring at me without blinking. I am not real experienced and have no experience with aggression. Any advice on how to handle this when it happens and on what I should maybe do with him? I'm really torn as he's mellow and calm with the animals but gives me an odd feeling.