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Louie and Connie

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KatherinesBirds

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As most of you know, my little Pained Conure Louie passed on Feb. 9th. Connie was his mate and she has been missing him so much.
Louie always chased her away from the food, "his" toys, and any treats I put in were always claimed right away by him even if I put in a dozen of them, he would always have to take his fill before she could touch them at all. Well, this went on for 23 years.
Poor Connie has had a tough time without him....I have too. She has had to be hand fed. Connie used to bite me like crazy but now she just climbs out of the cage and I can feed her with a tiny spoon or just give her seeds by hand. I am amazed to say the least. I left her cage open last night and sat next to her. All she ate I have to give her by hand. I am right now watching her playing with Louie's toys. He claimed two little plastic cat toy balls with a bell in each and she could never even approach them. Now she rolls them around on top of the cage. When I put her inside she chases the balls back and forth. I give her a piece of banana and she cowers down like Louie is still here and will chase her at any moment. In a minute or two she will slowly move over and start eating. She eats very little seed unless I am right there in the room with her. When she sleeps at night they used to lay on the cage floor with her against the corner of the cage by the bars and Louie would sleep against her on his side with his little feet in the air. After 23 years of this I guess she has good reason to miss him. She makes a nest of a bunch of soft Viva brand paper towels now and has gathered all his toys into this area so she feels comforted I think.
It's tough to watch. I am doing all I can to help her.
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I am sorry. It must be so hard.

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It is really hard to watch a widowed bird try and rebuild a life after their partner has died. I had to do that with Gracie Tiel after Chip died. They were together twelve years. Luckily Gracie was surrounded by her children, so she continued to eat with the flock and interact with the flock. Gracie did come to me more often after Chip's death for one on one attention and also sat on me a lot.

If you must bait her to eat using treats, it won't hurt short term, Katherine. Poor little girl must work out how to live on her own now and all you can do is help as much as you can. I know you will do everything you can. ;)
 

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Gosh that is so sad. Even though she was told when and what to eat she must have loved her little partner so much. They had been together for such a long while as well. Bless her, hope she settles into a comfortable pattern for the life she has left now. :hug8::heart:
 

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Wow, that is such a long time for them together. She must be grieving so. Sending good energy to Connie, that she finds peace and happiness again.:hug8::hug8::hug8:
 

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:hug8::hug8:A big hug for both of you.
 

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Awwww...poor baby. Prayers for her.
 

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:sad7: positive thoughts for you little Connie
 

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:hug8: for you and Connie.
 

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:hug8::heart: Keep doing what you're doing, Katherine; continue to show her your love and take comfort in her. Together, you will heal :heart::hug8:
 

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Aww that is so sad! I'm sorry for you both :(
 
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