Hi I am searching for a parrot that will fit me and I found two that would be fine: cape parrot and eclectus. But I would like to have some information/experience that people have with their eclectus I have read alot about them I know their alimentation is different, their are less destructive (is it true?), they dont very like to cuddle (can you still handle them easily like taking there wings and paws? And do they sometime like to be pet?) and can they be independant if they have toys (are they good for someone who works?). I would like if you could correct me and tell some of your experience with them. Thank you!