Thanks for the tips everyone, I will see what I can make.
And yes Fuzzy, he jumped up there like he had been waiting on it to appear heheh. I attached some toilet paper rolls as someone else hinted on the boing too as he sometimes get those on his cage, much to his liking. True, Kilo does fit a boy or a girl
but I do hope its a girl after what I've read about hormonal males.
Anyway, I'm really having a issue here regarding the biting, and I do hope its a phase but I kinda feel like I need some help.. I live with my fiancee as said and she has a really hard time with him. She was helping me hand feed Kilo in the beginning and everything went so smooth, but then something must have happened and now he only likes me. I do think I need someone else but me to handle him both for socializing him and to avoid him becoming a one-man bird as an adult (which he now already is), or what do you think?
I have two books on amazons, and another book about parrots in general, but I can't say they help much when it comes to this.
Its really depressing, and I have been crying tonight because of Kilo as I feel this is embarrassing (even writing this is) and I have done something wrong in raising him this far.
I have had parrots before and have worked with parrots in pet stores (including a green wing macaw), so I have experience with parrots of all sizes, and before Kilo I didnt have a parrot for 5 years as I was waiting till I got my own apartment to get one again, and that left a hole in my heart until now and I kinda feel I chose the wrong species as I knew amazons could be "biters", but I didn't know it would be like this, and this early.
Obviously he is telling her to back off and has bonded extremely well with me and considers me the favorite person, and I'm wondering if she should just leave him alone for a while and only me handle him and reward him for good behavior, and when he's older allow other people (including my fiancee) to handle him again? I think that might sound like a bad idea, but I feel something has to be done and its not too late as he is still very young (soon 4 months), I just don't know how to proceed, so any help or methods here is really appreciated!
When he bites or lunges, is there something we could do, or is it best to just ignore him? What do you guys do when your zon has stepped up willingly and looking happy and then bites you? Put him back or just ignore him and let him bite? Could it be a good idea to just let him bite my finger as much as he wants when that happens? He does bite hard but I don't really get "hurt" even though he bites me to blood
Now don't get me wrong, Kilo isn't a monster and he isn't going anywhere no matter what as I love him very much, just as my fiancee does, she knows how happy I am because I finally have a parrot again and if all goes bad and he ends up hating her for the rest of his life so be it, but I will do whatever it takes to try and make my little buddy like her (and other people).
All his good qualities that I can sum up fast are: steps up, steps down, flies to me when I say come, follows the target stick very well (when I do it), likes to be scratched on the ear (always yawn when I do that haha, got it on video and might post it later), really likes to be cuddled on his cheek and beak and neck and back of the head etc, and loves when we both sing with him, he has started whistling and I know he soon will say "hello" and "hi", he loves when both of us mist him with water and so on.
So lots of good qualities already, but the biting is scaring my fiancee to come close him.
Most of these things only include me though, and he is a very happy parrot with me.
Ok, enough rambling, sorry for the wall of text hehe.
Thanks for your warm welcome and help everybody, really appreciate every input here!
Here we are on the beach two-three weeks ago by the way!
Lots of sun and fresh sea air equals one happy parrot!