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5 Myths About Parrot Behavior

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When you are learning about parrots, it is often quite natural to turn to the internet for information. Chat groups in particular often have people who are very happy to talk about parrots and offer advice. Sometimes the advice can be based on old information or even old wives tales. Try to be a critical thinker when obtaining advice from the internet. Check with experts you trust to make sure what you are reading is accurate. Here are a few myths that I often see pop up on the internet frequently.

Myth #1: Your parrot needs to obey you.
This concept has been around for a long time. While it is understandable we would all like a well behaved parrot that does what we ask, the word “obey” seems to imply something a bit more forceful. Most people tend to interpret this to mean that they must make the bird comply, especially when he or she is refusing to cooperate. This often leads to people doing things like forcing birds to step up onto hands or go back into cages. Over time what can happen is the bird learns to be afraid of people or may start to show aggressive behavior. The good news is you can train your parrot using positive reinforcement to do whatever you ask when you want. This approach leads to a bird that eagerly cooperates and is very well-behaved. You don’t have to be his boss, you can be his buddy.


Myth #2: Your parrot thinks he is dominant if he is higher than your shoulder.
This idea probably started because someone could not get a bird to step up or cooperate when the parrot was sitting up on a high perch. Believe or not Myth #1 probably helped cause Myth #2. Parrots like sitting on high perches. If you try to force them down, they often move away or try to bite. This may seem like the bird thinks he is dominant, but in reality he just likes his high perch much better than he likes the hand that is coming at him in a forceful way. If your bird is trained to voluntarily come to your hand for a treat or reward he will step up or fly right down to your hand even when he is on a high perch. That is because he learned many wonderful things happen, like treats, toys and attention when he gets on a hand.


Myth #3: Parrots are competing with you when you talk on the phone or have company over.
Many people know that parrots tend to scream for attention when left alone. But what about the bird that screams when you are on the phone or have friends over? I have heard many people say the bird is seeking attention or competing with the owner when this happens. What happens next? People talk louder….and the bird gets louder! What is actually going on is that the bird is being a good flock mate. The loud talking humans means it is time for the flock to make some noise and the parrot is just joining in on the fun. That is why when people get louder, the bird gets louder. Once everyone gets quiet the bird will too. If you need your parrot to be quiet when people are talking you can offer him a super fun toy right before you intend to have a conversation or spend time training him that quiet activities will get reinforced when people are talking.


Myth #4: A parrot behavior problem is just a phase.
Many people have young parrots that are cuddly and easy to handle. Then around 1 to 2 years old the birds starts to show aggressive behavior. People often label this time as the terrible twos and hope the bird will just grow out of it. Unfortunately that is not the case. Young birds are easy to handle because they are in a phase of development that makes them open and receptive to new experiences. We can often get away with being forceful with young birds. But as they mature and that window of openness goes away and they start objecting to the same type of handling they would allow as youngsters. The best strategy is to never use force to begin with. Even if a parrot will allow it, it doesn’t mean you should. Always let your bird choose to participate and reward with desired goodies when he does. This should be carried on throughout the lifetime of the bird. Do this and you will have good behavior from your parrot for his entire life.


Myth #5: You just have to accept that parrots will be “hormonal” certain times of the year.
Hormonal typically means the parrot is in the mood to breed and have babies. This state means the bird has extra reproductive hormones in its body. Besides wanting to make babies this can cause other problems like aggressive behavior, or egg binding. Unless your want your bird to breed, your parrot does not need to be “hormonal.” Most parrots are not ready to breed all year long. Certain environmental triggers cause them to produce more reproductive hormones. These include extra daylight hours, an over abundant diet rich in fats, sugars and carbohydrates, having a mate like bond with another bird or human, and having access to a nest like cavity. So to avoid an increase in reproductive hormones we can make sure the amount of daylight the bird experiences stays the same throughout the year. We can also monitor the diet and make sure the content and amount is appropriate. We can avoid reinforcing courtship behaviors like regurgitation. Instead we can interact with our parrots in healthier ways, like training fun tricks. And we can take out any toys that look like nest boxes and also block off access to any similar hiding places in the house. These tips will help prevent your bird from going “hormonal.”

These are just a few myths about parrots. If you ever read something about parrots that sounds a bit strange to you, do a little extra research and you’ll discover the truth about our feathered friends.

Barbara Heidenreich has been a professional animal trainer since 1990. Her company Good Bird Inc (www.GoodBirdInc.com) provides parrot training DVDs, books and workshops. She has been a featured speaker in eighteen countries and has been published in nine languages. Barbara also consults on animal training in zoos.
 
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I don't subscribe to the height dominance, but I know a LOT of parrots, mine included, that act differently when they have some height on you.
 

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I think it's because 1) they're prey and 2) their natural habitat is mostly high in trees..

I have an iguana and it's well known in the reptile crowd that if an iguana if slashing in your arms, 'whipping you' with his tail, etc..hold him directly above your head and he stops/calms down instantly.
It works everytime.
 

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I don't think #5 is a myth. Hormones is a fact of life. You cannot take them away.
 

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I don't think #5 is a myth. Hormones is a fact of life. You cannot take them away.

Agree completely. Healthy birds are going to experience them.
 

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Myth #3 makes me laugh, Ella is always talking when I dial the phone on speaker to call my Mom. Ella waits until Mom answers Hello and they say it at the same time. Ella speaks to her has no idea its not her play Fisher price toys talking but she enjoys it nonetheless. She mimics my mothers laugh and states now OH MY GAWD, I never state it and mother unforunately does alot.
 

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Why would the human buddy be perceived as a threat?
It's not us, its most likely just instinctual. I think if an Ostrich or another ground dwelling bird began to try and be taller than it's human, it may be something else entirely but birds with flight in them tend to like to be up high.
 

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Agree completely. Healthy birds are going to experience them.

Myth #5 The way I read it. She is somewhat doing a double talk. Yes they get hormonal, but you can reduce the tendency by "doing or not doing" ...this,this, or that ! She leaves a lot of room for debate on that one :huh:
 

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I don't think she's implying that.
I know. I tend to agree completely with Barbara Heidenreich. But the way it's written out it's implying that it's a myth that you have to accept that it happens certain times a year.

Well certainly you can adjust your parrots diets. But even then most people still have hormonal parrots at certain times a year


So it's not a myth then.
 

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Well certainly you can adjust your parrots diets. But even then most people still have hormonal parrots at certain times a year
I agree :) she kind of double talks it. It's Fuzzy ;)
Myth #5 The way I read it. She is somewhat doing a double talk. Yes they get hormonal, but you can reduce the tendency by "doing or not doing" ...this,this, or that ! She leaves a lot of room for debate on that one:huh:
 

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Well certainly you can adjust your parrots diets. But even then most people still have hormonal parrots at certain times a year
In fact, I don't do that as long as hormonal behavior isn't being dangerous to them.
That they are hormonal is normal so I let them be that and don't change food and give them less light and more sleep.
If we give them as much natural life as we can (and also allowed them to mating) I believe that they are much more easy to handle because they are allowed to do what are normal to them.
I believe that we are getting more problems when we are trying to change their natural needs.
 

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I think the trainer means that unless we as people understand that something we do could be interpreted as wanting a more than friends relationship. Not sure where I read it on here, (I think it was on here (been doing a lot of reading about parrots - to understand my budgie better) ) but someone wrote to be careful in how you pet your parrot - don't pet under the wings as that is as intimate to them as a topless hug would be to us. Or, don't pet the tail - for the same reasons.

Also, since we control what they have in their environments, not putting a nesting spot or something that could be perceived as one, then they would be less likely to think that was something we want to encourage. Or in the case of a budgie pair, where both are in the same cage - provide a Kozy Keet nest for her to chew a nest, and then hand her some nesting material. I think she would likely think OH how nice, we can start a family.

No, they have hormones and needs just like we do. If longer daylight hours (like having them in the noisier room until our bedtime, even at 11:00 pm, then putting the lights out) could indicate that it is summer to them. As they most likely do not understand the concept of electricity. So, if summer means breeding time, breeding could be encouraged by that environmental factor as well. I know I learned on here, to put my budgie on a 12 hour schedule, where he goes to bed in a quiet dark area of the house. As opposed to a 16 hour daylight day.

Thanks so much for sharing these. Yes, I agree - height means a safe place to be. I think too, when a person is trying to get their bird down from some high place - they probably appear more like a predator in that moment - TO the bird. Like a bobcat or raccoon climbing the tree to get them.

Every bird that I have had - who was capable of getting to a high place - would sleep in a high place. The gooses could not. Neither could the ducks. I distinctly remember our one turkey (pet) who got in the house once by accident. We were trying to shoo him back outside and he flew up on top of the cabinets. We had to wait for him to come down. He broke a figurine on the piano when he came down. He was fine - the wooden item was wrecked. He weighed about 30 pounds. :lol: He is the turkey I talked about in the story I shared here. Mr. Darcy.
 

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Yes, hormones are natural. Having a bird be hormonal all the time is not. Excess of sexual hormones could lead to chronic egg layers year round, enlarged gonads (for male birds), prolapsed cloaca, behavioral issues, etc.

I feel that a lot of people may be unintentionally encouraging unnecessary behavior by petting their birds wrong, keeping them on a bad light schedule, not allowing them enough *proper* light, feeding them warm mushy foods, etc. People unintentionally set their birds up to become sexually active.


Just recently came across someone who was petting their conure on the *BUTT*! And the conure liked it! Then they were wondering why their bird enjoyed it so much... didn't even realize what they were doing! (they do now!)
 
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