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I posted recently about Willow (23-year-old CAG) plucking since my husband passed in December. I took her to the vet, who felt it was due to grief and stress. He recommended a bird buddy. (Willow is an only bird.) I have 3 dogs, and she spends her days on a playstand in the room with me and sleeps in the bedroom, but the vet said she just lost her flock (my husband) and since she was a flock creature, giving her a friend/flock would make her much happier.
I'm here to ask -- has being part of a flock, or getting a buddy, helped your bird deal with grief and stress? Stopped the plucking?
The vet had another CAG in the office (a male) and wow, did Willow react well to him. When I got her home, I downloaded a video of another CAG chattering and played it for her, and again, she showed a lot of interest. I'm thinking that maybe the vet is right.
Do you think it matters if I get another grey, or just any species? The vet suggested a parrot nearer her size, not a budgie. If I get a grey, would it matter if I got a Congo or a Timneh? If I go with another species, I'm partial to a green cheeked conure, which could obviously not be allowed any contact with Willow. Does anyone have a grey who's buddies with a smaller parrot? How does it work out? Are there any other species you might suggest? A local avian petshop suggested a red-belly, but when I read "the good, the bad, and the ugly" about them, they sounded kind of scary - they bite hard. I'm not afraid of GCC bites (not much, lol), their damage is limited.
Getting another grey isn't something to do lightly. I'd like to get a baby female, but babies are ridiculously expensive locally. The vet cautioned me that he's treated numerous birds people bought from rescue organizations or Craigslist that ended up very sick within a month. I don't have a separate room for quarantining, so I'm not going to rescue. Also, after being bit by Willow several times through the years, I'm very shy of being bitten, so starting with a baby would make that easier.
The vet suggested the same sex if I get a grey, so I wouldn't have to deal with mating behavior and they'd be friends with me, too - what's your experience with male/female buddies?
You gave me some good suggestions to my first post - thank you. She's still plucking, so I expect it will take time.
I'm here to ask -- has being part of a flock, or getting a buddy, helped your bird deal with grief and stress? Stopped the plucking?
The vet had another CAG in the office (a male) and wow, did Willow react well to him. When I got her home, I downloaded a video of another CAG chattering and played it for her, and again, she showed a lot of interest. I'm thinking that maybe the vet is right.
Do you think it matters if I get another grey, or just any species? The vet suggested a parrot nearer her size, not a budgie. If I get a grey, would it matter if I got a Congo or a Timneh? If I go with another species, I'm partial to a green cheeked conure, which could obviously not be allowed any contact with Willow. Does anyone have a grey who's buddies with a smaller parrot? How does it work out? Are there any other species you might suggest? A local avian petshop suggested a red-belly, but when I read "the good, the bad, and the ugly" about them, they sounded kind of scary - they bite hard. I'm not afraid of GCC bites (not much, lol), their damage is limited.
Getting another grey isn't something to do lightly. I'd like to get a baby female, but babies are ridiculously expensive locally. The vet cautioned me that he's treated numerous birds people bought from rescue organizations or Craigslist that ended up very sick within a month. I don't have a separate room for quarantining, so I'm not going to rescue. Also, after being bit by Willow several times through the years, I'm very shy of being bitten, so starting with a baby would make that easier.
The vet suggested the same sex if I get a grey, so I wouldn't have to deal with mating behavior and they'd be friends with me, too - what's your experience with male/female buddies?
You gave me some good suggestions to my first post - thank you. She's still plucking, so I expect it will take time.