RedsQ
Checking out the neighborhood
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- 4/27/20
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- Jordan
Hello everybody!
This is my first time posting on this site, so let me know if Im missing anything.
I adopted a 19year old blue-fronted amazon from an elderly couple (and their 2 x 30some daughters) in August 2019, so its been about 8/9months. They made me promise if I were to get rid of her they would get her back, to which I obliged because I have zero intention of returning her. They also wished to visit her new home (my house) at some point to be able to say hello and see her new set up... I was less excited by this idea but I understand it cant be easy letting go of a birdie you've had for 19yrs. So I said that may be an option, once I feel we've bonded enough and its been enough time that the birdie doesn't believe you're here to collect her.
SO. I sent a text asking about the birdie's fav songs because they did a, imo, very minimal job giving me handover info about what she likes. Im already annoyed with them and their slow release of info about the poor birdies interests, considering my home is a large culture difference to theirs and I obviously want to make her comfy and happy.. Anyways, I got a text from them mentioning some songs and a CD that they have and are now deciding they should give me. They then followed up with the big question about visitation soon.. Obviously post COVID crisis so that wont be for a while anyways in my books, but still. I don't know if I feel its been long enough? Generally how long should one wait before a previous owner visits a re-homed bird? I don't want to mess with our slow growing bond by breaking her little heart again over the previous owners. I also definitely don't want to get the cold shoulder / bitten because suddenly Im not primary care giver while the last owner is standing around... Help? Advice?
This is my first time posting on this site, so let me know if Im missing anything.
I adopted a 19year old blue-fronted amazon from an elderly couple (and their 2 x 30some daughters) in August 2019, so its been about 8/9months. They made me promise if I were to get rid of her they would get her back, to which I obliged because I have zero intention of returning her. They also wished to visit her new home (my house) at some point to be able to say hello and see her new set up... I was less excited by this idea but I understand it cant be easy letting go of a birdie you've had for 19yrs. So I said that may be an option, once I feel we've bonded enough and its been enough time that the birdie doesn't believe you're here to collect her.
SO. I sent a text asking about the birdie's fav songs because they did a, imo, very minimal job giving me handover info about what she likes. Im already annoyed with them and their slow release of info about the poor birdies interests, considering my home is a large culture difference to theirs and I obviously want to make her comfy and happy.. Anyways, I got a text from them mentioning some songs and a CD that they have and are now deciding they should give me. They then followed up with the big question about visitation soon.. Obviously post COVID crisis so that wont be for a while anyways in my books, but still. I don't know if I feel its been long enough? Generally how long should one wait before a previous owner visits a re-homed bird? I don't want to mess with our slow growing bond by breaking her little heart again over the previous owners. I also definitely don't want to get the cold shoulder / bitten because suddenly Im not primary care giver while the last owner is standing around... Help? Advice?