Hi all. Iv had my eclectus for a year now, he's the best thing Iv ever done. He has an amazing set up. His own room, an outdoor aviary, a huge play gym taking up a large portion of the livingroom. He brings me so much joy. Thing is, my dream bird was always a cockatoo but I was told not to by everyone as they are not 'beginner bird' ... as much as I love my eclectus I still obsess over cockatoos just as much as before. I know they are a whole different ball game but I'm 27 with my own home, in the country, no neighbours, work from home, financially stable, a home body and I have no intention on having kids either, though that isn't 100% of course. My eclectus likes other birds and his mate was a macaw before me. I was thinking maybe I could adopt an older cockatoo from a rescue and give it a second chance but I'm worried on the effect it might have on my 3YO eclectus as cockatoo's are so alpha. I also worry about how often and impulsively they self multilate, Iv read one day alone and bored can lead to this. My eclectus is quite independent and also toilet trained, he's never plucked, he's sassy as hell and I worry maybe a cockatoo is not an option for me now and maybe I should of just gone for it when I was birdless a year ago (not that I regret my eclectus I LOVE HIM) ... have I missed the chance to own a cockatoo and have a happy house hold? I must add I like the sulphur, umberella and salmon crested Thanks