try to feed the birds while bigmouth Wasabi screams. So I leave the room. He shuts up. I return and within a minute, he starts, so I leave again. This time I came upstairs to kvetch about it. Having a nagging headache is not helping.
I don't know what it is with him and fixing supper. I am trying not to pay too much overall attention to him anymore when he makes good sounds, (I know that makes me sound negligent,) but he's come to expect me to go running over there to play every time. I don't now. I will talk to him when he does make nice sounds or words, but I do not make such a huge fuss. I don't know if that's right or wrong. I've always heard praise him to the heavens when he makes a good sound. While that is nice in theory, it is backfiring on me. It's been suggested that I have spoiled him and maybe so. Maybe now he is rebelling against it. This is a fine line to walk.
When I walk away, I try to make him think I have left the house by opening and shutting the garage door and saying bye boys, c ya later. As per John's practise.
I need to read more about the reasons for screaming. I have read a lot, but I am sure there are things out there that I don't know. Maybe someone has new theories. I am just thinking and typing...I do believe there is no cure-all answer for some of these difficult behaviors. There are no one size fits all answers. I know of one behavorist who has a pretty cut and dry answer. She is not on this board. I certainly do not agree with her and I really don't appreciate the implication, stated or unstated, that I do not know what I am even doing, having a challenging parrot. It's not like I created the initial problem; he came to us this way.
I don't know what it is with him and fixing supper. I am trying not to pay too much overall attention to him anymore when he makes good sounds, (I know that makes me sound negligent,) but he's come to expect me to go running over there to play every time. I don't now. I will talk to him when he does make nice sounds or words, but I do not make such a huge fuss. I don't know if that's right or wrong. I've always heard praise him to the heavens when he makes a good sound. While that is nice in theory, it is backfiring on me. It's been suggested that I have spoiled him and maybe so. Maybe now he is rebelling against it. This is a fine line to walk.
When I walk away, I try to make him think I have left the house by opening and shutting the garage door and saying bye boys, c ya later. As per John's practise.
I need to read more about the reasons for screaming. I have read a lot, but I am sure there are things out there that I don't know. Maybe someone has new theories. I am just thinking and typing...I do believe there is no cure-all answer for some of these difficult behaviors. There are no one size fits all answers. I know of one behavorist who has a pretty cut and dry answer. She is not on this board. I certainly do not agree with her and I really don't appreciate the implication, stated or unstated, that I do not know what I am even doing, having a challenging parrot. It's not like I created the initial problem; he came to us this way.