I am SO dissappointed in this forum.
There are gentler ways to share information and to educate others, and certainly to discuss or even debate something without putting people on the defensive or offending them. Tact is always the most effective way to persuade someone to listen to your take on something. Even if an issue is a black and white one, it's always far more contructive and gainful to present yourself as open minded and to "invite" someone to review information.
It's always a win-win situation if you do so. If you want to bring forth information, it's safe to say that you would like it to be as far reaching as possible. So why not seek out the most efficient way to do that? If you want to comment or reply with your feelings and opinions, it's safe to say you want people to listen to you. So why not say it in such a way that provokes thought ... not reaction?
As an educator and advocate for ferrets, I don't care how emotional I feel about something, I always carefully choose my words. I like to start out with something that indicates to the listener that i'm open to their thoughts and that ultimately ... I'm putting them first. For example, "I was thinking that ... what do you think about it?". If I need to correct some information, I always say something like, "I found these resources that appear to be very reliable about ... and it was really interesting to me. After reading it, I thought maybe it'd be something we could discuss here if you'd like. Have you ever head of that?". Better yet you could start off with something kind before you even say anything like above.
An educator is not an "educator" if you speak to the choir. By not always being "right" and picking your battles wisely, you can be a pleasant person to talk to and because of that people who otherwise would not listen to you will ultimately feel pulled in to do so and to learn from you. If I feel like someone believes awful things or behaves awfully .. how have I helped myself or others by pointing that out and criticizing them? What i've done is just alienated them and chased off the very person that needed information the most or more importantly needed a friend that could taught by example so they are nicer to others.
There are people with feelings on the other sides of your moniters. People who care about birds. People who care about other people here. People who deserve respect and caring. They come first. Not the information or my opinions.