I'm just going to write this out here because I'm stuck away from home..It might be helpful for you to write down all the pros and cons of each choice. I find that really helps me to organize my thoughts, I too can be a little all over the place with my ideas. It’s nice to write it out because you can look back at what you wrote when your emotions start to kick in. It’s also nice to see the pros and cons side by side. i know you said there are traits to all the species that you really like but not one species has all the traits you want in one. I might take some time to really think about what trait is the most important to you long term. Good luck!
What do I want in a bird?
Or maybe I should start with what about the budgies I like what they sort of lack..
I love watching them learn things. I love watching them play. I love it when Citrine gets pissed and tells me off because I love their distinct and powerful little personalities. I love love love the scarce little moments I get that prove they trust me.
I love watching them just be happy and healthy and confident in my house, clearly knowing it's just as much theirs.
I wish they were less skittish. They have been socialized enough to be cool with alot of change and super cool with strangers, but sometimes I feel like I have to prove myself for their trust over and over.
I wish they were more into me. They come over to my computer if they want snacks, but they dont sit on my shoulder or let me scratch them or sit near me anywhere else in the house.
I wish they were more into puzzles. I try to teach them to forage but they barely even nibble things, let alone lift them or turn them or move them.
I wish they were into music. They don't bob or sing or dance with me.
What attracts me to each of the bigger birds I like?
Pionus .. they are generalized as quiet and gentle, but that depends on the bird. I thought this might be a bird that could co exist with the budgies well just by not even caring about each other much. They are generalized as socialable/might be family birds - honestly we dont see people much, but I would like to show off my hird when I can. They might be capable of talking. They are not really pluckers. They are generally good eaters. They make adorable sounds.
Cons.. they might be too mellow? Too slow to warm up?
Blue Crown.. this bird sounds goofy and fun and sociable. Also smart. I know conures are more "cuddly" many times. They are adorable.
Cons.. they are actually smaller than I want.
Timneh.. they can probably talk, they are seriously intelligent. They can solve puzzles and use logic and reason in amazing ways.
They like to walk around as much as fly, so they would hang out more on my level.
Cons, they can be phobic and nervous, they can do the bait and switch and bite you without obvious warning. They can be intensely one person birds. The powder.
Amazon.. they can often talk. They seem to have almost as much logic and reason as a grey. They like to sing!! They are fun and goofy. They are beautiful. They have clear easy body language. They are healthy, hardy, not pluckers.
Cons.. the most common ones are known for their temper and aggression that starts in puberty. The ones in rescue are mostly not tame.
Small 'too.. they are affectionate. They are funny. They might talk. They like to dance!! They want to be near you, but not as clingy as a big 'too. You can clearly see their wheels turning when they walk around and select toys. They have logic and reason, they can like puzzles. They are might bond to one person but they are more sociable than the bigger 'tops. They love scritches.
Cons.. the powder.. the fear of plucking.. the possibility of screaming, though this is more with bigger 'toos. You cant read their eyes. But you can read their feathers still..
I've been over all this alot though, and I still cant say for sure.
An amazon that never wanted to be touched would make me a bit sad, but I would love watching them play. A grey that was phobic would make me worry, but it would be phenomenal to watch them work out toys and learn like a toddler. A 'too that didnt like people would be unfortunate, but I would love communing with them on my own..
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