Unimaginable horror...Unfortunately accidents happen. When you have other predatory pets even other birds injuries are always possible. Even if you don;t then there is chemicals used by a guest or cleaning woman or a neighbor burning garbage. This is the 2nd death by dog in a few weeks & I just can't imagine living with that thought of treasured birds life ending like that. Thing is most of us have hearts & we hurt. Still it happens every day. I still think of Kobe & his daughters last thoughts flying into a mountain or that police woman that was run over by a car after she rescued an elderly woman who fell in the street. I really don;t even want to hear of these things as they shake me deep in my soul...Thing is its done & nothing you can do to bring them back. Its not fair...33 years is a long time...
I'm so sorry but you cant blame your wife. Sometimes I misplace my keys as I forgot where I left them or a receipt I needed & it happens. Things happen no matter how hard to try to remind yourself to do something.We are human & we are not infallible. You had 33 beautiful years so please try to focus on them & be thankful you shared those years together because at some time out loved ones check out & so do we & sometimes its not peacefully in our sleep.
I try to hang onto logic & reason in these times as the pain of the loss in tragic circumstances is enough to make us sick...I mean it...You bird would not want that...Grief can age us & make us ill...
I know the dead silence & looking at the cage & the trauma are all around. Can you put the cage in another room or something like that. Perhaps a memorial. For weeks people were leaving flowers where the woman was run over & the masses are all surrounding mourning a basketball player but for the rest like us we just have a few loved ones & AA who can share in our loss...
I'm so sorry but you cant blame your wife. Sometimes I misplace my keys as I forgot where I left them or a receipt I needed & it happens. Things happen no matter how hard to try to remind yourself to do something.We are human & we are not infallible. You had 33 beautiful years so please try to focus on them & be thankful you shared those years together because at some time out loved ones check out & so do we & sometimes its not peacefully in our sleep.
I try to hang onto logic & reason in these times as the pain of the loss in tragic circumstances is enough to make us sick...I mean it...You bird would not want that...Grief can age us & make us ill...
I know the dead silence & looking at the cage & the trauma are all around. Can you put the cage in another room or something like that. Perhaps a memorial. For weeks people were leaving flowers where the woman was run over & the masses are all surrounding mourning a basketball player but for the rest like us we just have a few loved ones & AA who can share in our loss...