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You are not a bad person for doing what was advised to you by inexperienced, uneducated and ignorant people- you did what you thought was right as they are in that position where one should be able to assume they know what they are talking about. Unfortunately for you and the animals they are there to make money more than they are there to give the animals a better life.
Maybe it will be easier for you to start off with a bird more willing to be handled by absolutely anyone- if it were me then I would stick with the bird you have already.... I am a sucker for a challenge with making friends with animals though
If it is knocking your confidence trying to work with this bird after being given crappy advice and you honestly feel this bird is not for you and you are not for this bird, you can not make things better and you are doing the best thing for both of you by returning the bird then I can guarantee you that the members here will support you even if what you do is not what most here would choose to do- We just want whatever bird you bring into your home to have its best chance at a wicked fun happy loving life in a good home and we just want for you to get the best and most in depth interactions from your fluff butt.
No one can change the way you feel but I beg you to think it through a lot more and make the decision based on what is actually best for all of you rather than just what is easiest for you. Take your time to make your choice- the choice you make affects this bird for life more so than it will ever affect you so all I ask is that you do not make this choice with hurt or guilt filled feelings at the forefront of your mind- make this choice with a clear conscience and rational (non emotional) feelings and thoughts.
Best of luck and do keep us informed of whatever you decide is best
Maybe it will be easier for you to start off with a bird more willing to be handled by absolutely anyone- if it were me then I would stick with the bird you have already.... I am a sucker for a challenge with making friends with animals though
If it is knocking your confidence trying to work with this bird after being given crappy advice and you honestly feel this bird is not for you and you are not for this bird, you can not make things better and you are doing the best thing for both of you by returning the bird then I can guarantee you that the members here will support you even if what you do is not what most here would choose to do- We just want whatever bird you bring into your home to have its best chance at a wicked fun happy loving life in a good home and we just want for you to get the best and most in depth interactions from your fluff butt.
No one can change the way you feel but I beg you to think it through a lot more and make the decision based on what is actually best for all of you rather than just what is easiest for you. Take your time to make your choice- the choice you make affects this bird for life more so than it will ever affect you so all I ask is that you do not make this choice with hurt or guilt filled feelings at the forefront of your mind- make this choice with a clear conscience and rational (non emotional) feelings and thoughts.
Best of luck and do keep us informed of whatever you decide is best