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Needing closure after bird passing away

Pro.dev3

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I got a baby (2 month old) rainbow lorikeet from a breeder 1 year ago.
Last November she spend an entire Sunday sleeping. I took her to an emergency vet that night where they kept her for overnight observation and provided heat (couldnt do anything since they specialized in cats and dogs).
Took her to a bird specialist the next day. They kept her for a few days then discharged her. We had to give her antibiotics for the next 10 days at home. Vet asked us to bring her back in a few weeks so they check for pbfd as the vet thought she had an enlarged liver.

When we brought her home she was always active and happy. I didnt take her back to the vet afterwards thinking she was healthy.

Last Sunday she played the entire morning with me then became inactive. Wouldnt eat much and was sleeping. I provided her with heat and decided to take her to the specialist the next day (Monday).

Took her to a different vet (closer to home, bird specialist). They said they will take blood, take an xray, run tests while we take her home and wait for the results.

They took her for the xray. Could hear her protest. The vet comes running out and asks us (me and wife) if we want to hold her because she is dying. We held her and she died in our hands.

Vet says she had a heart attack. Vet says she had pbfd and that the previous vet visit would have been another mini heart attack. I asked to confirm it since I have another bird at home. He took my bird from me but came back saying he cant take blood as there is no blood pressure so he cant test for pbfd.

I am devasted. She was my best friend. Did the vet do something? Do birds have sudden heart attacks when one moment she is protesting being handled by strangers for the xray?

Been 2 days, I havent eaten since, havent been to work. I keep going through what happened again and again and again. Is thr Vet making sense? Is that even possible?

*seems I cant post without a prefix. This is neither urgent nor a 911 request. Please move if in the wrong section.
 

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I'm so sorry for your loss :(

Birds can have heart attacks brought on by stress. However, there is usually an underlying condition in play. Healthy birds don't just up and die, usually.

It's so hard to know if something could have gone differently. The what ifs are enough to swallow you whole. I know it is hard, but you can't go down that line of thinking as there is not an end to it, just more sadness. :(

I'm sad that they couldn't any other testing for you though; surely there had to be a way? That would be my one critique.
 

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I am so sorry for your loss. Fly free little bird.
 

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I'm sorry for your loss...my thoughts are with you x
 

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I’m so very sorry for your loss.
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I am sorry for your loss.
 

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I’m so very sorry for your loss fly free little one
 

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I'm so sorry for your loss :sorrow:
 

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Thanks for the replies everyone.

Cant do this anymore.
 

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I am very sorry for your loss. My elderly guinea pig passed away at the vet. I am always kicking myself. He was over 8, he sneezed 1 day, which was weird for him. I took him in for a check up, they took xrays, they didn't see anything wrong. The vet gave antibiotics as a preventative measure. The antibiotics destroyed my elderly guinea pigs digestive fauna. He starting having seizures. We were back at the vet.. really sad. I held him one last time, his little paw pressing against my finger is my last memory of him. I am still teary thinking of it and it is more than 10 years ago that this happened. Sometimes things go wrong, animals are old or stressed (it is the same for humans). You don't think anything wrong will happen, but then it does. It doesn't mean the vet did anything wrong directly. Anytime any procedure is done there is risk. Sometimes it is just easier to blame vets because it hurts so bad to say goodbye. I guess it is a stage of grief.

If there is any risk pbfd was in your home I would get your the rest of your flock tested. You need to have a firm answer in regards to that one.

Sending supportive hugs. I am deeply sorry for your loss.
 
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