I've had problems the last several months with Chico using a contact call for me that is shrill and ear piercing and though I would never do it makes me want to wring his little neck. I asked for advice on the forum about it and you guys gave me alot of good suggestions.
I noticed one day, while talking to my s/o on the phone-he was returning home for lunch that Chico just gives him a ton of 'woooos' when he comes in so it's wooo wooo wooo wooo! NOT FAIR! I asked him what he was doing, and he said that the minute he walked through the door (chico can't see you when you first walk in) he says hi, then before he does ANYTHING at all, he goes straight to the cage and lets him out and gives him smooches.
I thought that's what I had been doing, but he pointed out to me, sometimes I'd hesitate and remove my coat or hat and gloves, sometimes I'd lean over and put my purse on the kitchen table before coming into the living room to say hi. I hadn't realized it, in my mind I was going straight to him.
It's the very advice many of you had given me when I asked for help. Well I'm happy to say, that now I remove my hat as I'm walking to his cage, I say hi the minute I step inside, and first thing he gets a hello and some smooches before I do anything else. It's working! Not always, but it's getting better I must have been making him very anxious but delaying his greeting before.
I noticed one day, while talking to my s/o on the phone-he was returning home for lunch that Chico just gives him a ton of 'woooos' when he comes in so it's wooo wooo wooo wooo! NOT FAIR! I asked him what he was doing, and he said that the minute he walked through the door (chico can't see you when you first walk in) he says hi, then before he does ANYTHING at all, he goes straight to the cage and lets him out and gives him smooches.
I thought that's what I had been doing, but he pointed out to me, sometimes I'd hesitate and remove my coat or hat and gloves, sometimes I'd lean over and put my purse on the kitchen table before coming into the living room to say hi. I hadn't realized it, in my mind I was going straight to him.
It's the very advice many of you had given me when I asked for help. Well I'm happy to say, that now I remove my hat as I'm walking to his cage, I say hi the minute I step inside, and first thing he gets a hello and some smooches before I do anything else. It's working! Not always, but it's getting better I must have been making him very anxious but delaying his greeting before.