I want to keep this as concise as possible because it is painful and riddled with guilt.
My reasons behind the decision to rehome:
She is such a good bird. She is playful and silly, she is loving and personable, she is so smart and trainable. She has so much personality and potential in her little self. I'm crying while writing this. If I was older, if I had a secure home and a good job, if I had others around to be her flock as well, I would never consider giving her up. But if I'm honest with myself, her staying with me is a disservice to her and she deserves, and needs, better.
I wanted to reach out here because as far as I'm concerned, you all are the cream of the crop in terms of bird owners. If she went to any of you or anyone you would endorse, I would feel comfort knowing she was in good hands.
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Practical details:
Poppy is a nearly 1.5 year old green cheek conure (you can see her in my profile picture or in my other threads). She has been DNA sexed as female and has no medical issues to report. Her favorite foods are green grapes, peppers, plain creamy peanut butter, and her Caitec pellets. She loves to play wrestle on her back, fly-chase you running around the house, and dance and screech to her favorite song, Barbara Ann by the Beach Boys. Her favorite way to bathe is in cupped hands or a shallow plate you're holding under a gentle stream of sink water, and she's very particular about the temperature (it must be cold or she will not get in). She loves to look out windows and go on outdoor adventures in her travel cage. She is adventurous and curious, very good at trying new things if introduced properly. She is trainable and motivated by praise or her favorite treats, and already knows a few tricks. She is hand tame, loves scritches, and will allow most touching, but she is less of a cuddler and more of a professional wrestler these days. She does occasionally show her cuddly side though, and will preen your hair and snuggle up to your neck to nap.
We live in Corvallis, Oregon but I'm willing to make a drive if it means she's going to the best home I can find for her. (We have spent 15 hour drives in the car together several times going home to southern California and back, and it's actually been some of my favorite times with her. She does very well in the car.) I would want to exchange contact information to receive updates about her and tell you everything I can think of that I have learned about her.
I will be performing a screening process including a virtual home tour and questions about care. This is mandatory and very important to me.
I will not be rehoming to anyone under the age of 25 or to anyone who does not have bird-owning experience, for obvious reasons. I will not be rehoming to anyone who already has dusty birds (cockatiels, budgies, etc.) in the interest of Poppy's respiratory health. I prefer not to rehome to a single person or a family with very young children, and would instead prefer a couple or a family with older children, but exceptions are possible. I can also consider a foster situation, but I really don't want to put her through the further grief of losing a foster parent she becomes bonded to. Poppy would do fine as a single bird as she is very sociable with people, but I think she would benefit from having other birds in the house. I have never seen her interact with other conures, but she seemed to show excitement/aggression around the cockatiels I used to live with, I'm not certain as she was never allowed too close to them.
I intend to not charge a rehoming fee as long as I trust you and the screening process goes well. And of course she would come with all of her supplies (cages, toys, perches, food, play-stands, everything) free of charge as well.
If you want pictures of her, a list of the supplies, and any other information about her, don't hesitate to contact me.
My reasons behind the decision to rehome:
- Due to some changes in my personal life, my living situation is rocky. I will soon have to pay significantly more for rent monthly, encroaching on my already tight budget. I fear Poppy's care needs will be compromised, specifically in terms of the budget for veterinary care. I also will be unable to buy toys regularly to fuel her constant need for enrichment.
- Again due to changes in my personal life, Poppy is not receiving as much attention as she has in the past. As a result, she is becoming lonely and more clingy. This is bad for both of us, and the cycle of frustration that grows from this has been horrible. She is glued to me any second she can be, which ranges from irritating to unbearable while trying to do school from home. She doesn't understand why I can't give her attention, so she becomes increasingly persistent, which is increasingly frustrating. So I have to isolate myself from her while doing school, which leaves her all alone.
- On some days, I have school commitments from the time I wake up until I go to work, and then I work until late at night. Poppy only receives about 2 hours of passive interaction and outside of cage time these days (usually while I get ready for work and after I get home while I'm making dinner and doing bedtime activities), and I have little time to myself to regain sanity after these long days. This is causing an accumulation of stress to the point where I can hardly handle being around her at all. And I have gotten extremely angry at her a few times, which I feel tremendous guilt over. She doesn't understand why I ignore her and get angry at her, and I have noticed that her trust and comfort around me seems to have lessened as a result.
- My lack of free time and increasing exhaustion extends past her need for attention. I haven't been able to diligently prepare daily foraging, make toys regularly, rearrange her cage frequently, or work on the training goals I have for her. I do these things occasionally, but not with the consistency that she requires. She is bored, which probably promotes the clinginess I mentioned above as well.
She is such a good bird. She is playful and silly, she is loving and personable, she is so smart and trainable. She has so much personality and potential in her little self. I'm crying while writing this. If I was older, if I had a secure home and a good job, if I had others around to be her flock as well, I would never consider giving her up. But if I'm honest with myself, her staying with me is a disservice to her and she deserves, and needs, better.
I wanted to reach out here because as far as I'm concerned, you all are the cream of the crop in terms of bird owners. If she went to any of you or anyone you would endorse, I would feel comfort knowing she was in good hands.
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Practical details:
Poppy is a nearly 1.5 year old green cheek conure (you can see her in my profile picture or in my other threads). She has been DNA sexed as female and has no medical issues to report. Her favorite foods are green grapes, peppers, plain creamy peanut butter, and her Caitec pellets. She loves to play wrestle on her back, fly-chase you running around the house, and dance and screech to her favorite song, Barbara Ann by the Beach Boys. Her favorite way to bathe is in cupped hands or a shallow plate you're holding under a gentle stream of sink water, and she's very particular about the temperature (it must be cold or she will not get in). She loves to look out windows and go on outdoor adventures in her travel cage. She is adventurous and curious, very good at trying new things if introduced properly. She is trainable and motivated by praise or her favorite treats, and already knows a few tricks. She is hand tame, loves scritches, and will allow most touching, but she is less of a cuddler and more of a professional wrestler these days. She does occasionally show her cuddly side though, and will preen your hair and snuggle up to your neck to nap.
We live in Corvallis, Oregon but I'm willing to make a drive if it means she's going to the best home I can find for her. (We have spent 15 hour drives in the car together several times going home to southern California and back, and it's actually been some of my favorite times with her. She does very well in the car.) I would want to exchange contact information to receive updates about her and tell you everything I can think of that I have learned about her.
I will be performing a screening process including a virtual home tour and questions about care. This is mandatory and very important to me.
I will not be rehoming to anyone under the age of 25 or to anyone who does not have bird-owning experience, for obvious reasons. I will not be rehoming to anyone who already has dusty birds (cockatiels, budgies, etc.) in the interest of Poppy's respiratory health. I prefer not to rehome to a single person or a family with very young children, and would instead prefer a couple or a family with older children, but exceptions are possible. I can also consider a foster situation, but I really don't want to put her through the further grief of losing a foster parent she becomes bonded to. Poppy would do fine as a single bird as she is very sociable with people, but I think she would benefit from having other birds in the house. I have never seen her interact with other conures, but she seemed to show excitement/aggression around the cockatiels I used to live with, I'm not certain as she was never allowed too close to them.
I intend to not charge a rehoming fee as long as I trust you and the screening process goes well. And of course she would come with all of her supplies (cages, toys, perches, food, play-stands, everything) free of charge as well.
If you want pictures of her, a list of the supplies, and any other information about her, don't hesitate to contact me.
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