So I posted here a while back about Kai being hormonal and choosing my 13 year old daughter as his mate. He built a mansion in her closet and was extremely obsessed with being with her 24/7.
since then we have removed the nest and taken him to the Birdie boarder for about 5 days. He has been back now for a week and the first day back he seemed a lot calmer. We were very careful not to trigger him. But after 24 hrs he went right back to his obsession.
my question now is this...... we are all home 24/7 so do we need to let him hang out with her to keep him calm or do we need to keep him separate from her as best we can? He has not been allowed to nest and she is very careful not to respond to his obsessive ways. But with us all being there 24/7 sometimes it’s just easier to let him sit with her so he will chill out. Now I wonder if that is a good thing or a bad thing? He is on his stand in her room but still only wants to sit on her shoulder and preen. The kid has online school to do but if he can’t see her he screams and screams and screams. I’m wondering if he should go back to the bird boarder for longer or what should we do at home to help get him past this?
thanks for any advice
since then we have removed the nest and taken him to the Birdie boarder for about 5 days. He has been back now for a week and the first day back he seemed a lot calmer. We were very careful not to trigger him. But after 24 hrs he went right back to his obsession.
my question now is this...... we are all home 24/7 so do we need to let him hang out with her to keep him calm or do we need to keep him separate from her as best we can? He has not been allowed to nest and she is very careful not to respond to his obsessive ways. But with us all being there 24/7 sometimes it’s just easier to let him sit with her so he will chill out. Now I wonder if that is a good thing or a bad thing? He is on his stand in her room but still only wants to sit on her shoulder and preen. The kid has online school to do but if he can’t see her he screams and screams and screams. I’m wondering if he should go back to the bird boarder for longer or what should we do at home to help get him past this?
thanks for any advice