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Hi, I'm new here...How do I convince my parents to let me get a cockatiel

tka

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Speaking with my university lecturer hat on, be very careful about making a commitment now that you cannot sustain. At university, you will be timetabled for a certain number of contact hours which will depend on the subject you take. Contact hours are the hours you're actually timetabled for - these may include lectures, seminars and lab hours depending on your subject. However, you will be expected to do a lot of independent study: reading, taking notes, meeting your lecturers to discuss your work, preparing for assessments, perhaps forming a study group and so on. While you may only be scheduled for 15 contact hours a week if you're doing an arts or humanities subject, you will be expected to put in a lot more than that in terms of independent work.

Universities also offer a lot of extracurricular activities. Mine offers everything from sports to tending the on-site vegetable garden. Typically, a university will offer sports teams, clubs for different hobbies and interests, and groups learning new skills or with common interests. You are (hopefully!) going to make friends and will want to socialise with them in the evenings. You may want to take inpromptu trips and weekends away. There is a lot of freedom to enjoy!

A lot of my students work part-time and often find it very challenging to balance their studies with work. A lot of them work in the evenings (generally in restaurants or bars) or at weekends (generally in retail). Sometimes they get the balance wrong and find that work cuts into their studying time which means that they do less well than they could have done in assessments. Adding a bird - who needs at least two to three hours out of cage time and your company - to this mix will only make it harder to find that balance.

The next decade or two of your life is going to involve lots of changes, many of which you may not be able to predict. You've got to think about what's fair on both you and a potential bird. It's not fair on a bird if you're unable to spend time with it or can't afford vet treatment. Equally, it's not fair on you to miss out on rewarding, enjoyable and/or valuable things or potential careers because you're responsible for a being with toddler level needs.
 

HolliDaze

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As much as I feel for you wanting a cockatiel, there is more to this than your parents letting you have a bird.

When Dexter was six months old, he had an emergency And needed surgery. The surgery cost $2000 after all was said and done. My mother paid for the treatment with her credit card, which I paid off for the next year.
Dexter isn’t a cockatiel, but my point still stands. As a minor, you will need their support. As amazing as birds are, its not a good idea to get a cockatiel and hope it never needs life saving vet care if your parents aren’t willing to foot the bill.
 

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Stay with us here in the forum too @Akira. There is always new info being published, new insights and new situations. Do your learning now and possibly help another parront down the line. You'll always be welcome here.
 

JoJo&Loki

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Hello and welcome!
I really like the idea of volunteering or fostering for you. It will give you the learning experience and also the chance to help birds- which in turn will help you!
Stay with us here in the forum too @Akira. There is always new info being published, new insights and new situations. Do your learning now and possibly help another parront down the line. You'll always be welcome here.
Also this! Please do stay, we are happy to have you :sadhug2:
 

camelotshadow

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They can't wait for us so we have to step up & be strong for them...We need to be up to the challenge & not let the foibles of life get tin the way...Its good in a sense as we can't live our lives under a blanket...we need to live up to challenges & overcome them with our birds cheering us on!!!
 
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