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- Iker Abrego
I have 2 lovebirds a male and a female, and ever since we got them their behavior has been strange.
They seem to fight over everything ALL THE TIME, the female attacks the male and fights happen, the behavior I don't understand is that, the female bites the male, the male either runs away or fights back, and when he loses (because he always does, he's very gentle when biting) he starts flapping his wings, sort of towards me, starts screaming like crazy, and suddenly becomes afraid of me (and eventually the female screams too). So I did the logical thing to do, buy a separate cage and put the male there. Their cages are right next to each other and ever since I separated them they yell ALL DAY and try to get close to each other, they sort of stick to the wall to be close to each other. so I thought "maybe it wasn't a good idea to separate them" I put them back together what happens?, they fight over everything once more, I even put more food/water plates.
My male lovebird will go to a food bowl, then the female will bite him, so he goes to another food bowl, and gets chased by the female...
I am a first time lovebird owner and I am genuinely struggling trying to understand them.
When I try to train the male, he wont do it if the female doesn't do it as well so I try to train the female and she is simply not interested at all, just doesn't care. And so i try to make the male less dependent of her by separating them during training, but he freaks out, he feels unsafe without her, wont listen, wont eat, wont do anything without her, but when they ARE together, he doesn't look happy either, he is always on the perch below her. Heck I even discovered blood on his paw and a bite mark I just don't know what to do, they costed me a lot of money so I don't wanna give them away or anything but NOTHING I do seems to work. HELP
They seem to fight over everything ALL THE TIME, the female attacks the male and fights happen, the behavior I don't understand is that, the female bites the male, the male either runs away or fights back, and when he loses (because he always does, he's very gentle when biting) he starts flapping his wings, sort of towards me, starts screaming like crazy, and suddenly becomes afraid of me (and eventually the female screams too). So I did the logical thing to do, buy a separate cage and put the male there. Their cages are right next to each other and ever since I separated them they yell ALL DAY and try to get close to each other, they sort of stick to the wall to be close to each other. so I thought "maybe it wasn't a good idea to separate them" I put them back together what happens?, they fight over everything once more, I even put more food/water plates.
My male lovebird will go to a food bowl, then the female will bite him, so he goes to another food bowl, and gets chased by the female...
I am a first time lovebird owner and I am genuinely struggling trying to understand them.
When I try to train the male, he wont do it if the female doesn't do it as well so I try to train the female and she is simply not interested at all, just doesn't care. And so i try to make the male less dependent of her by separating them during training, but he freaks out, he feels unsafe without her, wont listen, wont eat, wont do anything without her, but when they ARE together, he doesn't look happy either, he is always on the perch below her. Heck I even discovered blood on his paw and a bite mark I just don't know what to do, they costed me a lot of money so I don't wanna give them away or anything but NOTHING I do seems to work. HELP
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