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Hello everyone, I haven't posted on this forum in a while! Right now I have two budgies, Peeko and Reifa. Due to some circumstances, they have to share a cage right now (it originally belonged just to Peeko) and I'm planning on separating them this month. I wanted to ask for some advice on building my bond with both of them.
I've had Peeko since January 2021 and so far she has grown used to me (she isn't bothered in the slightest when I put my hand in the cage and she takes treats from my hands, as well as (sometimes hesistantly) steps up, but only for treats). It was a huge journey for us, I first had to teach her that spray millet was actually food, then she ended up cage bound after being outside two times and terrified both those times (until the point i brought Reifa home). She is overall pretty timid and shy.
In late 2021 I brought home Rei, she was just about 3 months old and I thought it would be easier to build a bond with her, and that maybe that would show Peeko that she can trust me as well. She first showed Peeko that she can leave the cage, so they started going outside together. She learned pretty quickly to step up onto my finger for treats and Peeko learned that from her as well. She still goes away from my hand when I put it in the cage, though. Right now Peeko and Reifa seem to share a certain bond, but recently Rei has been showing very clearly that she has claimed the cage territory all to herself (which was expected, honestly, because they are both females) so I'm separating them soon and leaving this cage to Rei.
My problem is, I interact with my birds regularly and try my best to read their body language, but they both only seem to want to interact with me when there's food involved. I'm not even talking about scritches/coming to me. Rei won't even sit on my finger for longer than she has food in reach and when i have no food for her she doesn't want to do anything with me and flies away immediately. Peeko is just okay with my presence and sometimes doesn't even want to interact with me for food. I want to know how I can show them they can trust me while not being pushy (because sometimes I feel so). I know patience is key, but there has been near zero progress the last few months and they've been with me for longer than that :[
And, another problem coming from this, when my birds are outside, they only sit on top of their cage and fly around the room without landing anywhere else. Because they don't trust me, they fly back to their cage whenever I try to put them from my finger onto a new surface (table, shelf etc.) I have put a playstand and their toys in various parts of the room but they never seem interested. Though they have had a weird couple of days once when they would sit in my lap eating millet and Rei even came to the other side of the room with me and sat on my bed but that was once and I have zero idea what that was.
Of course, as part of the bonding process I have trained them (so far it's only target training with both), they chatter when I talk or sing, they gladly eat veggies from my hands and all these things, so it's not like they're terrified of me. Sorry for the long post, but it's just like we've hit a dead end somewhere and I can't understand what I'm doing wrong.
I've had Peeko since January 2021 and so far she has grown used to me (she isn't bothered in the slightest when I put my hand in the cage and she takes treats from my hands, as well as (sometimes hesistantly) steps up, but only for treats). It was a huge journey for us, I first had to teach her that spray millet was actually food, then she ended up cage bound after being outside two times and terrified both those times (until the point i brought Reifa home). She is overall pretty timid and shy.
In late 2021 I brought home Rei, she was just about 3 months old and I thought it would be easier to build a bond with her, and that maybe that would show Peeko that she can trust me as well. She first showed Peeko that she can leave the cage, so they started going outside together. She learned pretty quickly to step up onto my finger for treats and Peeko learned that from her as well. She still goes away from my hand when I put it in the cage, though. Right now Peeko and Reifa seem to share a certain bond, but recently Rei has been showing very clearly that she has claimed the cage territory all to herself (which was expected, honestly, because they are both females) so I'm separating them soon and leaving this cage to Rei.
My problem is, I interact with my birds regularly and try my best to read their body language, but they both only seem to want to interact with me when there's food involved. I'm not even talking about scritches/coming to me. Rei won't even sit on my finger for longer than she has food in reach and when i have no food for her she doesn't want to do anything with me and flies away immediately. Peeko is just okay with my presence and sometimes doesn't even want to interact with me for food. I want to know how I can show them they can trust me while not being pushy (because sometimes I feel so). I know patience is key, but there has been near zero progress the last few months and they've been with me for longer than that :[
And, another problem coming from this, when my birds are outside, they only sit on top of their cage and fly around the room without landing anywhere else. Because they don't trust me, they fly back to their cage whenever I try to put them from my finger onto a new surface (table, shelf etc.) I have put a playstand and their toys in various parts of the room but they never seem interested. Though they have had a weird couple of days once when they would sit in my lap eating millet and Rei even came to the other side of the room with me and sat on my bed but that was once and I have zero idea what that was.
Of course, as part of the bonding process I have trained them (so far it's only target training with both), they chatter when I talk or sing, they gladly eat veggies from my hands and all these things, so it's not like they're terrified of me. Sorry for the long post, but it's just like we've hit a dead end somewhere and I can't understand what I'm doing wrong.
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