Hey Lori I don't worry Merlin would starve, he lets her get her will as long as she keeps reasonable but sets her to her place when she gets too bossy The worry is that she would get overweight, seen that Tikki died of that..@Gribouille ...well hello, I have been wondering where you were. I really wouldn't worry about their wieght. Unless there was true bullying going on then budgies for the most part will sort out the feeding schedules. We tend to obsess over nothing. No hen will knowingly let her male starve any more than a male will let a female stuff herself...