Fear in CAGs is not uncommon. Sangria was afraid to come out of her cage. She was afraid of anything new near her cage. You need to desensitize them to something new. With Sangria, I formed a trust bond. It took almost a year. I was severely afraid of her. Small birds have small breaks, and hurt when they bite you. I couldn't imagine being bitten by such a large beak. After a year of interacting with her, I finally was like, "if I get bit, I get bit." I overcame my fear. Its the same with birds. I decided to show her how to play with toys. I hung a new toy on the outside, outer end of her cage. I would come in the room, and talk to Sangria. Then I would play with the toy...making it fun, and saying "yay!!". And I would laugh and clap. I moved the toy closer to her cage door, repeating my playing with it. I moved the toy onto her cage door a bit later, repeating the process. I walked in one day, and there she was, playing with the toy. I played with her and the toy, again, saying "yay!", and clapping, and having fun.
I got her another new toy. I hung it near the other toy, outside the cage. I would play with the first toy, then the new toy. It didn't take long for her to start playing with both toys. I always repeated "toy" to let her know a name for what these strange things were.
She now has several new toys, and no longer has a fear of new toys if I introduce it as "a toy", and show her it is fun.
Fear of a new food is the same thing. You have to associate it with something they are familiar with. If your bird will eat from your hand, place 1 new food with its regular food. Let them watch you eat it, say "mmmm!!!", and ASK them if they want some. Do not try to force it. It may take a VERY long time, but eventually, they will try it because they are curious.
Always ask a bird to do anything. Use phrases like "do you want to step up?". "Do you want a treat?" "Can I have a kiss?", "do you want to play?" Always give your bird a choice.
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A lot of behavioral issues can be corrected by diet. Food affects your birds central nervous system.
We all want our birds to be healthy, happy, and we want to give them the best life we can. They are our "babies". We want them to feel safe, and loved. We have to address issues one step at a time.
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