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Hello guys! My boyfriend and I have two little Green Cheek Conures (named H & L) who are now almost 5 months old. They came from a breeder who we believe offered very little human interaction and started the downward spiral of some of their bad habits. We've talked with our vet, other bird owners, read books, websites, you name it. At this point, we have exhausted ideas on training our GCC, and wanted to reach out to the Avian community to see if you guys had some other ones. Please excuse the length of this!
1. Bringing H out of her shell.
H is a very sweet bird, albeit extremely shy. When she first came home, we couldn't touch her, she wouldn't step up, and she just freaked out at the slightest noise. Now almost four months later, she steps up beautifully on command, but she is still painfully shy. On a good day, we can kiss her head and gently pet her, but it is still fairly rare. Her favorite place is on our shoulders, and if she thinks we are going to try to touch her, she flees. H often wants to be "part of the party" and will come near us if we're playing with L, standing above us on the couch, or watching from the cage, but won't interact and if we reach for her, she flies away. Little noises (even the sound of a kiss) make her jump, and she is absolutely glued to L's hip - if we leave the room with L, H yells for her and pursues by flight. Cutting H's wings or trimming/filing her nails on our own are just out of the question. We've tried treats, talking sweetly, letting her come out of the cage on her own, praising her for anything/everything, giving her solo "H time" with us, playing with her, offering her toys, wrapping her gently in a blanket or towel and cuddling with her. 95% of it results in her fleeing. We just want to make her more social.
2. Stop L's biting.
L is one of the best birds you'd ever meet. She's rambunctious, hilarious, she wants to play all the time, all day long. She is extremely loving, will nap on us, preen us, she yells excitably for us when we come home, flies after us, play hide/seek and tug of war, wants to share food with us.. you name it. But L's biggest problem is biting, and we don't know how to stop it without compromising the bond she has with us (which is extremely strong.)
L is very food and cage protective and sometimes even protective over H, so we take special precaution to watch ourselves when she gives off her telltale "I may bite you" signs, such as ruffling her feathers or pushing herself down onto the cage (like a pouncing cat.) Sometimes we even know we're at risk if she's on our shoulders or back and doesn't want to get off - she pulls back, and the way we see it in these scenarios is, if we get bitten here, it was our fault.
However, other times, her bites just plain baffle us. L loves to play rough, so naturally she will roll on her back and try to grab our fingers, etc, but she bites extremely hard when she plays like she's trying to hurt us and not play; she's drawn blood from us both and my boyfriend fears playing with her. Sometimes to get our attention to play, she starts it with a hard bite. L has now bitten friends too; she starts out gently by nibbling, but quickly escalates and "tests" it to see how hard she can bite. Other times we've had her on our shoulders just doing household tasks/on the phone/watching TV, and she's bitten the top of our ears so hard she's made us scream - I still have a bruise on one ear presently from a recent bite. L bites when she's tired, when she's energetic, when we're petting or feeding her, when she wants our attention, when she wants us to stop something. We never exactly know WHEN L may bite, and we're always on high alert because of it.
For L, we feel we've tried EVERYTHING. We've tried treats when she is good, handing her toys when she bites to chew on them instead, we've tried banishing her from our shoulders, setting her on the floor in "time out" for 10 seconds, gently pulling her beak off and saying "no," gently touching her beak (just holding a finger there) and saying "gentle" trying to teach her to loosen her grip, we've tried the hand "earthquake", dropping our hands a few inches to startle her, we've tried the step up ladder, the step down ladder. We've put towels on our neck/shoulders to protect skin, we try to deter her from biting fingers/electronics since it may encourage her biting. The BF and I have also worked very hard to have NO reaction when she bites anymore (even in times she's made us bleed we try to hold it in to the best we can) but sometimes it just hurts way too much. We're just at a loss, and don't know what to do.
I absolutely love L, and she's my adorable sweet girl just like H, but we'd both love her even more than we already do if we could get her to understand how much she hurts us. We fear cuddling or kissing her sometimes because she may break into sudden "crazy L time" and bite our lips or nose too hard. Even times when nothing is happening she can lash out - on Friday I was walking around with her and H on my shoulder while on the phone, and she latched onto my other ear and bit until I dropped the phone in tears.
HELP!
Thank you guys.
1. Bringing H out of her shell.
H is a very sweet bird, albeit extremely shy. When she first came home, we couldn't touch her, she wouldn't step up, and she just freaked out at the slightest noise. Now almost four months later, she steps up beautifully on command, but she is still painfully shy. On a good day, we can kiss her head and gently pet her, but it is still fairly rare. Her favorite place is on our shoulders, and if she thinks we are going to try to touch her, she flees. H often wants to be "part of the party" and will come near us if we're playing with L, standing above us on the couch, or watching from the cage, but won't interact and if we reach for her, she flies away. Little noises (even the sound of a kiss) make her jump, and she is absolutely glued to L's hip - if we leave the room with L, H yells for her and pursues by flight. Cutting H's wings or trimming/filing her nails on our own are just out of the question. We've tried treats, talking sweetly, letting her come out of the cage on her own, praising her for anything/everything, giving her solo "H time" with us, playing with her, offering her toys, wrapping her gently in a blanket or towel and cuddling with her. 95% of it results in her fleeing. We just want to make her more social.
2. Stop L's biting.
L is one of the best birds you'd ever meet. She's rambunctious, hilarious, she wants to play all the time, all day long. She is extremely loving, will nap on us, preen us, she yells excitably for us when we come home, flies after us, play hide/seek and tug of war, wants to share food with us.. you name it. But L's biggest problem is biting, and we don't know how to stop it without compromising the bond she has with us (which is extremely strong.)
L is very food and cage protective and sometimes even protective over H, so we take special precaution to watch ourselves when she gives off her telltale "I may bite you" signs, such as ruffling her feathers or pushing herself down onto the cage (like a pouncing cat.) Sometimes we even know we're at risk if she's on our shoulders or back and doesn't want to get off - she pulls back, and the way we see it in these scenarios is, if we get bitten here, it was our fault.
However, other times, her bites just plain baffle us. L loves to play rough, so naturally she will roll on her back and try to grab our fingers, etc, but she bites extremely hard when she plays like she's trying to hurt us and not play; she's drawn blood from us both and my boyfriend fears playing with her. Sometimes to get our attention to play, she starts it with a hard bite. L has now bitten friends too; she starts out gently by nibbling, but quickly escalates and "tests" it to see how hard she can bite. Other times we've had her on our shoulders just doing household tasks/on the phone/watching TV, and she's bitten the top of our ears so hard she's made us scream - I still have a bruise on one ear presently from a recent bite. L bites when she's tired, when she's energetic, when we're petting or feeding her, when she wants our attention, when she wants us to stop something. We never exactly know WHEN L may bite, and we're always on high alert because of it.
For L, we feel we've tried EVERYTHING. We've tried treats when she is good, handing her toys when she bites to chew on them instead, we've tried banishing her from our shoulders, setting her on the floor in "time out" for 10 seconds, gently pulling her beak off and saying "no," gently touching her beak (just holding a finger there) and saying "gentle" trying to teach her to loosen her grip, we've tried the hand "earthquake", dropping our hands a few inches to startle her, we've tried the step up ladder, the step down ladder. We've put towels on our neck/shoulders to protect skin, we try to deter her from biting fingers/electronics since it may encourage her biting. The BF and I have also worked very hard to have NO reaction when she bites anymore (even in times she's made us bleed we try to hold it in to the best we can) but sometimes it just hurts way too much. We're just at a loss, and don't know what to do.
I absolutely love L, and she's my adorable sweet girl just like H, but we'd both love her even more than we already do if we could get her to understand how much she hurts us. We fear cuddling or kissing her sometimes because she may break into sudden "crazy L time" and bite our lips or nose too hard. Even times when nothing is happening she can lash out - on Friday I was walking around with her and H on my shoulder while on the phone, and she latched onto my other ear and bit until I dropped the phone in tears.
HELP!
Thank you guys.
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