I don't think Syd was ever allowed to fly, either. This makes me really sad, especially knowing he's in his "golden years".
He came to me clipped...and also, the little I *do* know of his background is that he was half of a breeding pair. So, I'm guessing that flight wasn't at the top of the breeder's list of "things I want my birds to do".
I recently let his wings grow in fully. He's only flown once, and it was only maybe 15 feet....and it was because he got scared (we were in the house). He spent the next hour sitting on his perch, with the most bewildered look on his face...lol...like "omg mama, what the hell just happened? Did you see that?"
Like TikiMyn's stepmother's bird, there are times when you can tell Syd just really wants to fly...like right now. He's on top of his cage, and I'm about 5 feet away. He wants to be with me, so he's doing his OCD pacing, lifting his wings, lowering his head...like he's readying for launch. I encourage him whenever he does this, and I've been trying to coax him into liftoff.
Eventually, it will happen. It's only been within the last week, maybe, that he's finally gotten some confidence, and has started climbing down from his cage and exploring the floor area immediately surrounding it. I make a big deal of this, and shower him with lots of praise...lots of "YAY sydney" and "huzzah, Bosun Syd!"
It's taken almost 2 years for him to get to this point.
Dexter will get there, eventually. But in wouldn't worry so much about that right now...working on building trust of his new family, and settling in, is first and formost. Everything after that, is gravy!