Hi Craig
I have read all your posts in this thread last night like a very interesting book, and I have to say that I am so happy for Mango that she got saved from that awful store (I think it has to be prohibited from selling birds like conures there) by a person like you. Can’t wait for the continuation of this story, love hearing about people saving animals from bad situations!
I had a couple of thoughts after finishing reading them, so I wanted to share them, maybe it will be some help.
First, it is really really suspicious to me that the store wouldn’t give you information on the aviary the bird came from. I got my two green cheeks from two different petcos from different states, and the stores would not even let me go away with the bird without having a hatch certificate with the birds hatch date and the name of the aviary. If I was in your situation, I would go back and demand the paperwork from them, I don’t think it is legal for them to hide it from you.
Second, it sounds to me that your bird wasn’t hand raised/fed. I made a mistake once a few years ago of trying to get a green cheek from a house where they all were raised by their parents in one big cage- boy, that was a big mistake, the bird was a terror, kept biting my hand when I’d offer it a treat, I had to surrender it to a local shelter, simply couldn’t deal with it like you do-my respect for your patience and love. And even that bird I had for a short time, wasn’t as badly afraid of me as your sounds like. Also, I think that maybe this bird is not that young anymore, if it grew to be so afraid of people - babies seem to be more accepting of the new beings around them.
Also, I wanted to add that I read that you shouldn’t be too afraid of making little mistakes- if you do, just came back to where you were before at with the bird before the mistake, and work it up again until you get the desired result. For example, if the bird takes seeds through the bars but is afraid of taking them from your hand in the cage, and you try to give her some treats in the cage too early and spook her, go back to teaching her take them through the bars again and be more patient this time and wait longer before you try giving her seeds in the cage again. Also, it is very important to watch their body language very very closely.
I am a first time bird owner, and I read a ton of articles before and after getting the birds, and there is so much out there, that you most likely will find an answer to any of your problems somewhere. Reading all these has been incredibly helpful for me, as well as getting the wonderful advices from this forum.
I wish you all the best with Mango, and thank you for saving her!
Lena