OK, i´ve read numerous of different advice's on how to do the first days when the bird gets home, and i´m getting more confused. My only experiences is two lovebirds that i didn't want tamed, and a cockatiel that i just had for a few week when my brother was away, and it was quite easy to gain trust. Now, I got my Kakariki home yesterday, and i feel he is very relaxed in the cage, eating, jumping around, and relaxing. When i reached in to change his water he just observed and didn't panic so I tried to give him fruit and he was curious, but didn't eat. I just just had my hand there for 2-3 minutes, then i got worried that i maybe pushing it to much in the beginning. So, i just realized that i forgot my question but i have read so much that I feel insecure of how to proceed. I want to let him out and try to gain trust that way, or is it better in the cage? Is there any limits on how much time i should sit with him? Besides when I see that he wants to be alone? I read different approaches like, 10 minutes at a time, but if it doesn't seem to bother him that i sit longer? I just want to get it right and maybe i'm just thinking to much, but it would be nice to hear some other experiences, good or bad, and maybe some tips.