Traps can be humane/catch live, too.
I know discussions about cats and birds can often be heated. I remember another thread that got out of hand and you said some blunt things that toed the line of vicious. I really hope I’m not coming off as rude but perhaps Donna and some members remember that, but irregardless I am sincerely sorry about what happened and that swipe at you was out of line. Like you said, Rosette seems very conscientious. Ultimately, it is up to her but I am sure she will be careful if she decides to welcome a cat into the family.
I was so pumped when I saw that you replied to me. I came in hoping it was going to be a cool reply. Ah well, maybe next time.
Making fun of someone losing a bird? Oy, not good.
As I was told by one mod, I wasn't the only one who out of line on that post. There is always PM's if you really want to address the behavior of a member. It's private, confidential, and totally appropriate. And it rarely turns into an ugly mob.
And you know the beauty of me? I never ever report anybody to a moderator. What goes on between us, stays between us.
I will say this for the last time, cats are not the bad guys here. There are seventy thousand cats a year who are euthanized. If somebody, like the OP, wants to save even one of those feline lives, than count on me being in the bleachers rooting her on.
If members are hung up on a post that happened several months ago then I suggest they get out more. I for one, want to move on.