Blu had been an absolute terror for somewhere between about 4-6 weeks. He was completely and utterly obsessed with his nest building. Usually when I take it down it kind of resets his attitude and he settles down and takes a break and is sweet again. But not this time! I took the nest down and he had like 1/2 a day of rest before building again and being exceptionally mean to me. He barely ate and constantly bit me. I mean he would come over to my shoulder and want love but then just bite the crap out of me. He would lunge at me whenever he felt the need and he was just genuinely being a jerk.
Every time he's like that I question whether I've done something wrong or if our relationship will ever be repaired. It can really be discouraging sometimes but I still love him and spent just as much time everyday taking the abuse even though I kind of wanted a little vacation from him
Well...I'm happy to report that as of yesterday he's being much more relaxed and happy and so very sweet again. He's giving me kisses and sitting on me being an absolute dear and has not bit me once in 2 days. I don't know why I always question if he'll ever be sweet again when he's like this. I kmow hormones happen but when he's so mean like that for so long I guess it makes you question everything .
I'm just so happy my little lovebug is back!
Every time he's like that I question whether I've done something wrong or if our relationship will ever be repaired. It can really be discouraging sometimes but I still love him and spent just as much time everyday taking the abuse even though I kind of wanted a little vacation from him
Well...I'm happy to report that as of yesterday he's being much more relaxed and happy and so very sweet again. He's giving me kisses and sitting on me being an absolute dear and has not bit me once in 2 days. I don't know why I always question if he'll ever be sweet again when he's like this. I kmow hormones happen but when he's so mean like that for so long I guess it makes you question everything .
I'm just so happy my little lovebug is back!