I agree with Joanna; clots, from what I know, are instantaneous. And even in people, in my limited knowledge, very hard to detect beforehand. You did everything you could have for her. No one else could have done more.
Oh your first post was so touching to read. I am so sorry to hear of your loss of Jeff. She was lucky to have a found you and you her....sounds like you were gifted to each other when you both most needed someone to love.
I hope you can soon only remember all the good you provided her and the love you both shared.
It’s never easy loosing our animal family members
I’m glad she had at least a few happy years in her life knowing your care and love was there for her.
Thank you, rockoka. I am sorry that I did not respond earlier, but I am really having a hard time with her death. Loss is the universal experience, none of us leave this world unscarred.I’m so sorry for your loss
Now you are on the right track.
I am so sorry. To lose one you are so close with is heart rending. I think most of us have felt that emptiness in our souls when one we specially love passes.
I hope the memories soothe you later on. I know for now every memory will be a nail in your heart.
Thank you, Webchirp. Still can't believe that she is gone.I am so sorry
What a relief that she went quickly. You absolutely did not fail her; know that. You were everything good in her life.
@Sylvester,
All that needed saying has been said, but I wanted to say that my heart hurts for you and Jeff.
i was in a depression, in fact the first day was 8/4/18, and I finally struggled out of it (I think I'm out) in Feb. Advice tends to be trite when dealing with depression so I won't give any but I will say you know you have the whole board here to support and talk to you if needed. Meds and counseling can be a tremendous help also.
Anyway. So sorry for your loss.
Thank you. Depression is a demon, and I tip my hat to anyone who can beat it back. I am glad you are feeling better, finchly.
I always knew that my world would come crashing down if anything happened to Jeff. I just didn't know that it would be so soon. The pain is immense.
@Sylvester@Sylvester you know I just realized my sister and Jeff crossed over on the same day. Perhaps they even found each other. I was wondering why there are no obituaries for the pets we have lost. Writing about the loss helps in the grief.