When my mom was a young teenager she got a cockatiel (who passed away only a couple of years ago - he ended up staying with my grandmother for 32 years!), so her having a soft spot for birds, I grew up with untamed cockatiels in the house. When I was a little bit older but still a young child, my parents got a Brown headed poi. He did not care for me or my siblings at ALL and never let me hold him or get too close to him, so I wasn't too thrilled about him either
Fast forward until I was about 15. We hadn't had birds for years, but my mom's friend knew she and dad liked birds, so when she had to rehome her lovebird she thought of us. I convinced my mom to accept because, being a naive teen with no bird experience or knowledge at all, I thought "he's greenish blue, just like my hair, I'm sure that'll be cute for selfies" I of course expected my parents to take care of him and that I could just hang out with him when it suited me. Well.... Turned out they couldn't even take him out of his cage because our dogs were chasing him around. I felt bad for him, started researching birds, took him up to my room to allow him to fly every day, learned a lot about parrots, became his sole caretaker and grew to care about him and his well-being more than I had ever imagined.
It was a REALLY bad initial reason to want a bird. If I had known what sort of responsibility I was getting myself into I'm not sure I would have done it, but on the other hand I'm also really, really happy that it ended up that way. I'm still very young now at 23, but I've done so much for my birds and I will always continue to go out of my way to keep them happy and healthy. I went to school for animal care/zookeeping to learn more about birds, training and ethology. I won't consider a full time job unless from home because I feel a need to spend as much time as possible with my birds. I keep learning and researching and talking about parrots and their behavior and needs every day. I spend most of my money on my birds and their needs and most of what I think about in life is parrot enrichment. I never hang out with my friends two days in a row because I don't want to be away from my birds more than neccessary. I regularly climb the steep hill outside my house to cut down trees and branches for my birds' aviaries and to gather healthy wild berries for them. I have a parrot tattoo with at least two more coming...
And I wouldn't have it any other way. I was very lucky to find my way into the bird world this way, and my late lovebird Pippin was probably lucky he managed to lead my way there. A young teenager getting a bird because it'd make for cute selfies would probably VERY rarely end up with that very kid devoting their life to caring for birds, eh... Definitely don't recommend that beginning to bird ownership. I was the stupidest.
Fast forward until I was about 15. We hadn't had birds for years, but my mom's friend knew she and dad liked birds, so when she had to rehome her lovebird she thought of us. I convinced my mom to accept because, being a naive teen with no bird experience or knowledge at all, I thought "he's greenish blue, just like my hair, I'm sure that'll be cute for selfies" I of course expected my parents to take care of him and that I could just hang out with him when it suited me. Well.... Turned out they couldn't even take him out of his cage because our dogs were chasing him around. I felt bad for him, started researching birds, took him up to my room to allow him to fly every day, learned a lot about parrots, became his sole caretaker and grew to care about him and his well-being more than I had ever imagined.
It was a REALLY bad initial reason to want a bird. If I had known what sort of responsibility I was getting myself into I'm not sure I would have done it, but on the other hand I'm also really, really happy that it ended up that way. I'm still very young now at 23, but I've done so much for my birds and I will always continue to go out of my way to keep them happy and healthy. I went to school for animal care/zookeeping to learn more about birds, training and ethology. I won't consider a full time job unless from home because I feel a need to spend as much time as possible with my birds. I keep learning and researching and talking about parrots and their behavior and needs every day. I spend most of my money on my birds and their needs and most of what I think about in life is parrot enrichment. I never hang out with my friends two days in a row because I don't want to be away from my birds more than neccessary. I regularly climb the steep hill outside my house to cut down trees and branches for my birds' aviaries and to gather healthy wild berries for them. I have a parrot tattoo with at least two more coming...
And I wouldn't have it any other way. I was very lucky to find my way into the bird world this way, and my late lovebird Pippin was probably lucky he managed to lead my way there. A young teenager getting a bird because it'd make for cute selfies would probably VERY rarely end up with that very kid devoting their life to caring for birds, eh... Definitely don't recommend that beginning to bird ownership. I was the stupidest.