I am glad things are going better for you guys.
Things are perfect Here extreme fearfulness is kindof annoying but that isn't going to last forever. the more she trusts me the more she seems to realize i'm not going to put her in dangerous situations.
Lurch finally got to the point he trusted me enough to give progressive warnings before biting most of the time, and when he did decide to bite he didn't try as hard or fast as he always did when he first got here. We wore each other down and I know he was fond of me so he didn't want to just hurt me like he used to. I still got da bitez but I got better at reading him and faster at dodging him. It was a feature for him, not a bug, it was who he was.
Dobby loves everyone, does everything to avoid biting, and is totally socialized and outgoing, he also has only known love and safety his whole life. He is also extremely confident, has chosen my sister as his true love, and loves flying about and getting into things. Very different from Lurch, or Nerd, my first Maxi.
Now that you have her trust you have a loyal family member and friend for the rest of her life. Nerd was my best friend for 31 years and Lurch would have been had he not escaped last April. Respect her dignity and she'll quickly forgive any transgressions on your part.
Yeah, parrot ownership is so different from predator mammals. You have to really play your cards right to win them over but once you do and every little bit of progress you get is just incredibly rewarding. She's just an absolute joy to have around and we both trust each other. I have zero fear of her being on my shoulder.
Congrats. I also have a Pi that is a chicken bird with everything. Glad she is coming along so well. Did you get her DNA done or just guessing she is a girl?
I haven't yet, I haven't even taken her to the vet for a wellness check :\ Soon as i got her some calamitous stuff happened and there went the 1000 bucks i make sure i have on hand for vet bills and emergencies. I"m going to take her in in the next few weeks for a general wellness check and stool lab work and hopefully a dna test if they don't charge too much. The previous owners think she's a girl for frankly dumb reasons and they called her a her, so i will to till i hear otherwise.
It's great that you're working things out,
@baserock love ! My pi took a LOT longer than that, just over 3 years now and he is stuck to me like glue. But like you, I waited for his signals, and for him to get over his various fears.
On the perch feeders, I'm wondering if different kind or color would work? Or could you fasten the feeder onto a different item and move it near her slowly?
That's great! And i don't really necessarily wait for her, i do a pretty rigorous desensitization routine to things she's afraid of. I basically do everything i can to associate them with things she likes, aka food and over time just make sure whatever it is is closer and closer to her when she eats, and eventually she'll eat food off it and it doesn't bother her. I FINALLY today got her eating off a popsicle stick so that will now be my target for target training.
Dont' get me wrong, she gets to move at her own pace but I"m pretty consistent. It's like yeah, i know having a popsicle stick in my hand 6 inches from you makes you a bit nervous but do you want the nutriberry or not? lol. If she moves an inch towards that popsicle stick to take it then runs away, she made a little progress. Next few days it might be 2 inches towards it.
As for the feeder i just need to come up with a way to attach them to pvc, i think i got an idea. Only reason i didnt' do it earlier is that she was of course....terrified of all the training perches i built for her haha. It's only in the last week and a half that she's gotten comfortable enough ot be on them much of the day so now i can try to paper train her, which is sortof my focus right now training wise.