Linearis
Walking the driveway
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- 7/19/18
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I just want to say that getting a parrotlet has made me happier than probably any decision I've ever made. She's 100 times better than I even imagined. I love spending time with her, I love decorating her cage and making her toys. I love when I'm about to leave my room and she runs up to me and asks me to take her with me (her flight feathers are still growing in). She hops onto my finger and off we go to another part of the house! But I'm finding it hard to cope with being away from her. I know it sounds pathetic but when I leave to go to school or to do errands I feel really bad. When I come home she's usually on her swing or playing with a toy so she seems to be keeping herself busy fine but I still worry and feel guilty for leaving her.
Right now I'm home most of the time but it was harder when I was working during the Summer (for me, not sure if it was hard for her... she seemed to be her normal self), and after is my last semester of school so after this I'm going to need to find a job again, maybe longterm career. I'm not sure what to do, does it get better? She seems to enjoy her cage quite a lot. Even though she does seem to like being out of her cage, sometimes she goes back to her cage on her own and plays in it even when I'm home and the door is open, which makes me happy since I feel it means her cage is adequate in her eyes. I make toys for her, currently making her foraging toys which she seems to love (she loves finding food in them way more than eating from her bowl) and when I'm home she gets as much out of cage time as she wants but... I still wish I could spend more time with her. I wish I could work from home. I miss her when I'm out. At the same time she would probably distract me if I were to work from home haha... I'd probably have to work in a different room, but at least it would cut the useless commuting time. -.-
I may get her a bigger cage when I have a steady income but then washing the cage would be harder and I like keeping it really clean for her. I'm not just saying that because I want things to be easier, but rather I want it to not take too much time because when I'm cleaning the cage I'm not studying (learning mandarin so even when I'm done with school I'll still be studying) and not hanging out with her. Taking it outside and hosing it down is not possible, but at its current size I can at least put it in the shower to rinse it with hot water. I like how it looks like new after I'm done, whereas when I just wipe it down it doesn't have quite the same effect to me. I thought of getting her a bird friend but I also heard parrotlets can be a bit difficult when it comes to getting along with other birds... The way I see it, it's likely I'd have to put them in their own cages and give them one-on-one time separately and I rather focus all my attention on one bird than divide my attention between two birds that are likely to not get along...
I really hope it gets better. x.x
Right now I'm home most of the time but it was harder when I was working during the Summer (for me, not sure if it was hard for her... she seemed to be her normal self), and after is my last semester of school so after this I'm going to need to find a job again, maybe longterm career. I'm not sure what to do, does it get better? She seems to enjoy her cage quite a lot. Even though she does seem to like being out of her cage, sometimes she goes back to her cage on her own and plays in it even when I'm home and the door is open, which makes me happy since I feel it means her cage is adequate in her eyes. I make toys for her, currently making her foraging toys which she seems to love (she loves finding food in them way more than eating from her bowl) and when I'm home she gets as much out of cage time as she wants but... I still wish I could spend more time with her. I wish I could work from home. I miss her when I'm out. At the same time she would probably distract me if I were to work from home haha... I'd probably have to work in a different room, but at least it would cut the useless commuting time. -.-
I may get her a bigger cage when I have a steady income but then washing the cage would be harder and I like keeping it really clean for her. I'm not just saying that because I want things to be easier, but rather I want it to not take too much time because when I'm cleaning the cage I'm not studying (learning mandarin so even when I'm done with school I'll still be studying) and not hanging out with her. Taking it outside and hosing it down is not possible, but at its current size I can at least put it in the shower to rinse it with hot water. I like how it looks like new after I'm done, whereas when I just wipe it down it doesn't have quite the same effect to me. I thought of getting her a bird friend but I also heard parrotlets can be a bit difficult when it comes to getting along with other birds... The way I see it, it's likely I'd have to put them in their own cages and give them one-on-one time separately and I rather focus all my attention on one bird than divide my attention between two birds that are likely to not get along...
I really hope it gets better. x.x
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